yeh i personally wouldnt call her out but i'd tell her if she doesnt like what she has now then to leave... you have to make her think that as soon as she does something wrong then you'll get rid of her...
ok little story for you from my early days...
long story short i met this girl and started seeing her... i was such a clinger it wasnt funny lol... she ended up sleeping with one of my "mates" and he came and told me and i cracked the shits and put my arm through a car window... she ended up telling me that she didnt want to see me again because she was scared of me...
ok so about a year and a half went by... (i'd started studying the art of seduction)... another long story short i started dating her again lol... this time i'd stopped being clingy... i was telling her shit like "If a girl ever went through my phone she'd be gone within a heart beat"... i turned everything that she used to do on me on her... and i shit you not it worked... i had her so scared that i would leave her if she did something wrong that she started wearing a ring on her wedding ring finger just so guys wouldnt talk to her lol... i ended up breaking her heart but thats another story lol
so yeh point of the story is:
Be the person that can easily find another girlfriend at anytime if the one you have now fucks up... it helped me...
but i must warn you... make sure you REALLY are prepared to let her go... because if you keep telling her you'll get rid of her then she'll know you're bluffing and call you on it... so be prepared to cut her loose...
hope that helped brother
