Hey Guys,

So I met this girl at the gym, totally went out of my comfort zone and started flirtying talking to her, and got her number. She seemed actually pretty into me, I wasn't even planning on asking for her number, just talking to her *baby steps *

So I got her number on Friday and sent her a text on Sunday. I know I should have probably messaged her after I met her, but I decided to wait.

Me: "How would my new personal trainer recommend I get rid of this hangover? " (She showed me how to do an exercise at the gym)

Her: "hahha I don't know my car is in impound haha"

Me: "Oh no, you know you can't park where those blue wheelchair signs are right? You got everything under control?"

Her: " haha yah its all good now!! u feeling a little less hungover now? lol"

Me: "Aww man, impound lot - thats like jail for your car! Hope you have a good story for it, ie. Parked illegally so you could save a puppy from a burning building"

Her: "hahahha yah.... thats my story lol"

Me: " Nice job! that definitely sounds like a story I need to hear, You should tell me all about over dessert " - yes, I actually did make that grammatical mistake "All about over dessert"

Havn't heard from her and the last time I texted her was about 7:50 last night. Any suggestions?

I was thinking something like

"Ok, my message made no sense, English is my 4th language - help me brush up? lol"

In my opinion a bit too playful, your started off great.(the opener text was genius).. Then. You went all kiddish talking about saving puppys lol.. She gave you bait wen she said her car was impounded(most likely a lie). That was your chance to say something like " if I have to come get you I'm getting a discount" something as if you had intentions of seeing her.

One other thing you may not of noticed, The lengthier your text got the shorter hers became. K.I.S.S( keep it simple stupid) just keep your text short an simple an most Importantly flirty.

You got what it takes. The text were really creative I liked them but they were more LJBF instead of " how about we hook up later on" catch my drift?

Wait 2 days an try again


Fuze

Thx for the tip Fuze, I appreciate the constructive critism!

Its sometimes a bit tough finding that balance between, let her think that I am "not into her" by acting more "Friend like", but still maintaining the attraction. you know?

Thanks again man!

Any more responses or opinions would be appreciated.

She texted back "Lol Sounds like a plan ", so I guess I Didn't mess up that bad hmm hahah

Wonder where I should go from here. Assertive route?

"Moxies at 17th, 7PM?"

I Feel like taking her somewhere a bit different, but is a bit far and don't want to ask her to meet me there, I also like picking up etc but is that a little weird for a first date.

Get her on the phone first.. 20-30 mins.. Once the convo gets really interesting...hit her with hey I gotta run " let's catch a movie a my place this Thursday" she has to say yes. It's easy as that. You'll lay it this week trust me.. If you need anytips on transition A movie at your place to a lay, I'll be glad to help.

Ok, so I respond back about 4 hours later "Alright J. Thursday night"

She responds today about 25 hours later "Ohh I got a early morning Friday.. What time were u thinking of?"

I was going to say something like "8, hanging with me is better than sleep anyways ", also how long should I wait, I was thinking about responding in the evening.

Thanks for the tips, I actually don't really want to invite her over until I get to know her better - ie, take her for a single date somewhere quiet and I can interview her a bit, see if she is a good fit. Also, I think its a forward for a first date from a total stranger.

Thanks for the input though man, I really appreciate it.

Fuze is right though.

I think personally you're playing this a little too nicely. You're the 'good guy', say and do no wrong who will probably do ten push-ups if she asked you to. Lol point is, I think you need to throw her off ... and Fuze's suggestion is perfect for that. She is probably expecting you to suggest some restaurant, ice cream place or whatever. Suggesting the movie thing at yours displays balls, it's got a subtle message behind it. In a sense, it shows you're not predictable and that you've got an edge to you.

I realize you think it's forward - but this is a step you should take IMO.

I'm not sayin you have to sleep with her. ( I would ;]). What I'm saying is she wont be expecting this. It's a great way to gain comformt with an heir of intimacy. Try it out dude. An heck if it doesn't go well just remember how many more numbers you can get from chix at the gym; let alone the world.


Abundant mentality

Fuze