Met this girl at a party.. Pretty big slut but sexy as hell. She didn't seem into me and ended up dating my friend a little bit, so I started ignoring her, which apparently sparked her interest. We've been texting and she sent me a few pics of smoe new "boots" and a dress she got, but both pics have the dress up SUPER high and slutty poses.

A few quotes from her during texting:
Me: "Damn, I'm approving of the dress and the legs of the person in them."
Her: "Lol you should see them up close soemtime, i think theyd like to meet u "
"But what if it turns me on when u tell me what to do?"
"are you a free spirited boy? Prove it.."
"when we hangout, I need to have all of your attention, that's the catch."

This happened for two straight nights, then the next day I texted her and said "what are you doing Saturday night?" but she is in a different state this weekend.

My question is two-fold:
1) How hard should I continue pursuing her? I wonder if I'm being a little bit too upfront here and seeming too anxious in my responses. Should I stop texting her for a week or keep seeing when she can come over?

2) When we hangout, I'm assuming we should go do something before we go back to my room. What should we do and when we get back should I start right away or get a movie goin or what?

anyone? c'mon!

I'll agree with you that she does want you. You just missed your window of opportunity that time.

Whenever a girl starts talking to me like that, dont just play along and end it there. C.A.P.I.T.A.L.I.Z.E.

When you and her get hot and heavy like that over text, call her on her bullshit. Tell her, I dont like talking to a girl who cant back her shit up. Meet me tonight. From there it's all abut working out logistics. Dont invite her over to "fuck", tell her to come over and watch a movie so we can talk about it.

By letting her cool off then inviting her out, it's mistimed and looks awkward.

Thanks man, that makes sense. But if she's so into me, then why would it matter? Wouldn't I get her either way?

And I would invite her to a movie to "talk about it?" meaning talk about having sex? that sounds weird...

Well, it doesn't have to be perfect. She'll bite at any chance to come over if she wants to fuck you. You dont need to mask the visit entirely with some bogus story, just tell her to come over and you'll pop in a movie and chill.

She might be into you, but women aren't like men in that sense, they dont have an on/off switch like we do. We'll take an invite anywhere anytime from a hot girl. As far as women go, it's better to put them in that state of mind that you had her before. Really get her to WANT to come over.

Nothing's written in stone. Especially with women. Just take it easy and the opportunity will present itself. That's what separates you from those other guys. Trying to make something happen when the time doesn't call for it or if she's not busy or not in the mood you could set yourself back. It's all about being that "cool-headed" guy.

I always use bogus, funny ass reasons to invite girls over. One time, I actually asked a girl to come over to "rearrange my collection of barbie dolls". Shit you not. And guess what? She came over and we had an amazing night. If you two are on the same page emotionally, you can invite her over for any fucking reason.

thanks man. That makes total sense. So how upfront should I be now over text? Should I be texting her since I know she's already interested, or should I wait for a while?

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I think the real problem is that its not in your reality that a girl openly wants to have sex with you as you didn't realize it till after. Get used to it.

She basically said, "Fuck me now". I usually drive them nuts texting back EXTREMELY raunchy stuff until they finally give in and come over.

I'm also seeing some hesitation because she dated your bud. How did the relationship with your friend end? Are you sure she is not interested in you just to alienate your friend from you (a women scorn...). Or it could be shes trying to gain value by either making your friend jealous or could be as simple as she wants your cock. Things you need to find out.