So let me get to the story. I'm normally pretty superficial but there is this girl who I met that is exactly what I like in a girl. She is outgoing, funny, just like me, and literally makes me smile with everything she says. She is in my college and we live in the same building.
So this girl i want to make her my gf but i don't know how to deal with this. normally i meet girls at night and have a good chat with them and take it from ther but this is different. I only see her at random times and only talk for a min or 2. So i don't know how i should communicate to her the best way that i like her. I'm in some people's standards good looking, and very socially intelligent But because she is like me she has laot of guy friends, I say she is like me because i have alot of girl friends. She is constantly talking to people. So I don't want to be one of the other guys. I was thinking of going like a normal guy would and show her alot of attention and IOI's but pick up is here for a reason.
My plan was to stop her next time i see and tell her that I'm curious about her and that i would like to get to know her more.
IDK thats my plan. Please suggest to me what I should do. Because I never met someone sooo similar to me. she is not even my type (white) and I still like her (I'm not a racist Smile )lol

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

The fact that you 2 are alike makes it perfect , if she knows it too tho.
Q: Does she know you have tons of female friends like she has male friends ?
Assuming that you would answer yes , then it can't get any better. She'll know that you are wanted and that's a reason to hang out with you. Just ask her out but don't act like it's a big deal "Hey have you ever been to "Name" , I went there yesterday with my friends and we had a blast. They have like these gigantic ice creams in all flavors ! We should go check it out next monday !
I just made that up to kinda explain where I'm gettin too. You're doing her a favor by taking her there , you don't care whether she comes or not.

That's what I would do.

Sorry if it appears as if I'm about to bust on you.

Dude, I'm been in your shoes somewhat before, and I can tell you the 1st step is that you swich the way you think about her. I can tell based on what you said exactly how you think about her.

Remember : your thoughts become your words; your words become your actions; your actions become your habits; an your habits become your character.

You barly know the girl an your already speaking of making her your GF @_@. Slow down a bit, try to not set yourself up for a let down. Keep it easy going.

However

If you want her bad enough you can in fact have her. I remember my 1st girlfriend was a chick I obsessed over. I mean staring at her myspace pictures everyday for 2 years without ever speaking to her in real life. Telling myself everyday " I'm gonna get that girl" she was in the top ten most popular people I'm highschool and had no clue I existed. Her senior yeAr my junior year I bumped into her randomly an it happened. Little goes to show, I left that relationship after 4 months -_-'.. I got bored.... Learn that lesson

You must realize that the way you feel about her is all in your head bro. I promise you, you will find 50 other girls in your life that fit her description. I believe you will rather learn the hard way =p

Trust you heart

Go get her

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