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Imply you are already going there and she should come because it's gonna be fun. If she says no don't act hurt or pouty, just continue the interaction and if you continue to have fun then she may well change her mind. If you ask why not she will DEFINITELY not come. After 5 more minutes n-close if you haven't already, so that you guys can keep in touch in case she changes her mind and wants to join you later.
So what your saying is... suggest it, if she says no, play it cool and then leave with the number or should i stay.
Only reason i ask i because the only reason i'd want to bounce is because of her
Never leave right after a n-close unless one of you is literally walking out the door and you can't stay. Sticking around for at least a few minutes makes it seem much more that you're interested in hanging out again and not like you're just going around getting girls numbers for the sake of it or to win a bet or something.
Your basic strategy is to game a bunch of sets. Lets say you open 10 and 2-3 you get to a hook point. You want to already try to future pace about stuff in general, i.e. hanging out with them again to show them a cool store or swap music or whatever, this is a good time to n-close. If not, you come back and re-engage each of them and say something like "oh HEY here you guys are! So my friends and I are hitting this next club XYZ because this place closes soon and it's a really cool place, you guys should join us" if they're hesitant or unwilling, then you know where you stand in terms of compliance. If you haven't done so, you now have the second opportunity to n-close, by saying "ok cool well let's exchange contact info so we can keep in touch when you guys change your mind and decide to come along ok
" Then you can re-engage set 2 and do the same thing. If they say no, same goes and do set 3. If they accept, then meet say you'll them outside and quickly do set 3. At the worst, you have 3 n-closes of girls that may join you later at the bounce location. At best you have 3 sets joining you and you walk into the club/bar like a fucking pimp.
If you only have 1 set going for you, things are going well, and the bar's not stopping serving anytime soon, then what is your rush to bounce? Try and push the interaction as far as possible, and then if it gets to closing time at that bar, then you can say "I really don't want this night to end, I'm having a lot of fun!" make sure she agrees, and then either say "well actually I know this fun place that's open later, let's go there for one more it'll be great!" or say you've got a XYZ alcohol at your place plus tunes, etc.
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