My friend is a pua. I've noticed my friend doing A LOT of pua type things when he's with girls. Like basic mystery method shit. I don't want him knowing I'm a pua though so is there anything I could do or say to find out without him knowing I'm a pua too?

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there's always the chance that sure, he might be a pua. or, he has a natural gift of getting the women he desires. Its not uncommon for guys to use material that is similar to that of pick up. in fact, ive seen quite a lot of people say things or do things that would make me believe that they were pua's, or suggests so slightly. If you really want to find out, I would probably mention a pua book - for instance, 'The Game' by neil strauss etc. Most guys who have learnt pick up have read this book. So id probably say something like ''hey, have you heard of this book called 'The Game' by some author called Neil Strauss? I came across it at a book store and flicked through a couple of pages...something about pua this, pua that'...have u heard about that stuff? seemed kinda interesting....''

if he responds with 'yes', then im sure he is a pick up arist to some extent...because most guys who read these books become hooked to a certain degree. Hope this helps, and goodluck on your pussy slaying ventures. ; )

Why hide it from him? What would hiding do anyway?

I think it's cool to form a secret club with a friend and to talk secretly about PU with him.

Lately, I went out in a bar. I saw a guy from my workgroup of college there, I went to him to say hi. He was having fun with a few girls while he is having a girlfriend. He began telling me that the secret is to don't give a fuck. He told me: "if your ego is this (puts his hand on the same height as his shoulder), then her ego is here (puts his other hand waayyy above it). The thing is you got to lower her ego to here." I was like huh? What? I asked him straight off if he knows The Game. He said "The book The Game? Yes"

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I don't want him to know I am in pick up because I don't feel like having his big mouth go around the school telling people I'm into that. And actually I do have a friend already who I wing with when I go out.

I'll try bringing up the game. Actually now that I think about it I brought it up last year for a minute in LA because we got to choose what book we read and that was what I chose (having no clue how big of a deal this book would be then) lol. So maybe he heard about it from me.. I don't know

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.