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So we were texting back and forth and this happened:
me:u sound confused.. name 3 sexy things abt u besides looks.
she: :S
me: whats wrong
she: wat a weird question to ask some1 nyway i m busy ttyl
So I aint sure what to do next. I m gonna see her tomorrow because we are locker partners. Should i txt her "Wow, I'm sorry, you must have thought that I was hitting on you. I was actually just being nice..." or any other suggestions?
need advices @_@
So let's break down what is happening in this interaction.
You are trying to get her to qualify herself to you, in a sexual way... which is something that a sexually confident woman would do to a man that she was sexually attracted to.
My intuition tells me that she is either not sexually confident, or not sexually attracted to you *yet*.
Your options: demonstrate high value to her until she starts taking interest and begins giving you indicators of interest.
or you could just isolate her and start sexually escalating.
Having built attraction in her for you is always helpful, though.
The reason she's going, "What a weird question to ask someone" is because you are turning the relationship sexual... which btw I give you props for. At least you have balls! Remember- it's YOUR job to make sex happen, it's HER job to have "plausible deniability." Remember, she has her female, non-slut reputation to consider.