last night was halloween, i went to the bar with no costume on and when i was standing in line at the bar to get a drink, a group of three smoking hot girls starting playing with the hood on my hoodie. i looked back, gave them all a smile then looked forward again. one of the girls came up beside me and ask where my costumes was? i looked down at my clothes and told her this is my costume, im dressed up as the only douchebag without a costume. she laughed and we flirted a bit more, only it was her that kept the conversation going when i didnt say anything she would ask where i was from etc.. when i got to the bar i asked what she was drinking ordered myself and her a drink, gave her hers, took mine and said have a good night, and heard her repeat that too in a rather confused tone as i walked away.

now my problem is ive only been with one girl ever. high school sweetheart kind of thing, broke up about 6 months ago and im left with no idea about flirting, charm, wittiness, confidence, etc. the fact of the matter is is i chickened out... so i guess im just looking for some advice on how to not chicken out, or how to keep a converstion going? lol

btw, when i say she was smokin hot i mean smokin fuckin hot

With that many IOI's you just need to grab her face, and kiss her.

When a girl IOI's you that much, you are pretty much half way in her pants.


You won't get rejected if you have 100% belief it works and you do it with confidence.

the fear of rejection is only a small part of why i chickened out, mostly im just avoiding any kind of contact with woman after what my ex did to me. the thought of sex/relationships scares me the most. im a good looking guy and i know it, but im not as blunt as to just kiss someone, i like to hang back and go unnoticed most of the time... but as you guys will probably tell me... its time to get the fuck out of my comfort zone right? haha

Haha, ive been waiting for ever to give someone this advice...

GFTOW (Definition is: Go find/fuck ten other women)

Oh and yeah get out your comfort zone. In my opinion thats a very important skill to learn in general, not just PUA. Otherwise, how will you ever move forward and be sucessful in life?

Freeze right up and say "I'm scared of strangers"

She might pet you. :p

"i hope you like em big" is what i'd say

stranger danger!! i love it hahaha