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Florg
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Going from an AFC or complete newbie to a PUA, what do you think is that hardest part?

Just want people's opinions on what the hardest part was/is and how they overcame it or plan to.
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Not taking it too hard when you fail 50 times in a row but keep on going until you get it right...

And I solved it by making a decision to not give up!

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To me it was going from theory(reading everything) to actual practice.
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Doing it enought times to not use routines.

I TRY to use natural game, but in tough situations i still use a canned routine

OHH, and keeping your energy level up, even if your tired/drunk or bored of her :lol:
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Every time you push yourself past your comfort zone, which is essentially every step of the way if you're doing it right.
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Every time you push yourself past your comfort zone, which is essentially every step of the way if you're doing it right.
This so true for me, being that i'm just starting. I've noticed that i could be good at openers but i don't rally know where to go from there so that seems hard.
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getting over approach anxiety is a barrier that every aspiring pua has to get through

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getting over approach anxiety is a barrier that every aspiring pua has to get through
Ha, not me. I remember my first opener, I walked straight through that shit.
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Not getting discourage and not being too outcome dependent. Because in reality you will fail more than you succeed. That is just the nature of the game.

When you approach a woman you don't know if she is going to behave herself. That can be intimidating.

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For me, it's consistency; getting results on a week by week basis, and not having mad, super long dry spells for no apparent reason.
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I've found that the hardest part is the variety of interaction. Until you really hit natural game level, it's tough to know exactly what to do in every situation. I never really had the best memory for canned lines, so using broader theory and applying it to different social situations worked the best.
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I've found that the hardest part is the variety of interaction. Until you really hit natural game level, it's tough to know exactly what to do in every situation. I never really had the best memory for canned lines, so using broader theory and applying it to different social situations worked the best.
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I'd say when you are first starting off. It has to be approaching. That is the main reason guys don't get good, they do not talk to enough women.

Like an RPG video game like Final Fantasy guys do not have EXP(experience points)

you need those experience points to "level up" get better. and you gain those EXP points by fighting battles, or in our case talking to women

Thats my video game analogy to pick up also
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