I go out sarging with two other guys. I am the one who opens and usually play the mid game, one of the guys is extremely cool and him and i play very well off of each other usually getting us exactly what we want. unfortunately he has been out of commission since he is now in a relationship and his gf comes out with us all the time. the other guy, lets call him X, and i dont really do well together. he is a good looking guy just not much game. the regular situation I go out talk to a couple sets open get them comfortable wanting to continue the party at our place then X comes in and flashes a smile, hits on my target, when we get back to our place he begins amogging me with his regular gay jokes. I have had a couple girls turn to me and ask "are you really gay?" at this point all my hard work is destroyed. Also its not witty shit at all, things like if pull a beer out of the fridge i get a joke like "bet you want to sit on it." I have tried punishing him by going out and doing absolutely nothing, no opening, just sitting and enjoying a beer, or going back and forth getting into a amog war but he is usually wasted drunk and gets angry and will ruin the entire set for the both of us. Lets just say that no matter what happens, If i go solo and pick up my own chick bring her back, if he is not getting laid no one else is.

any suggestions on how to turn this around without getting him into his self destructive mode? thanks in advance

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you could try either saying to him 'wow you seem to know a lot about being gay is there anything you want to say in front of your new girlfriend' or 'wow i like your look very james bond!'

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Two solutions.

#1 talk to him about it. Let him know whats up.



#2 When someone calls me gay, I get excited and kino the fuck out the guy and make him uncomfy. Keep this playful. I get into crazy made up stories on how we met, what are we gonna name our adopted children, etc... Is important to keep it playful. I usually have my arm around the guy and get him all nervous and bring down his state, with the obvious fake stories and kino. Then exit and put your arm around the target and start gaming her in front of him.

Thing is, I have never done this to guys I am gaming with because we don't cockblock each other. So #1 would be the best choice

thanks guys. Im definitely going to try talking to him first. also the kino towards him sounds hilarious and knowing him it will easily make him uncomfortable also good. yeah he is not someone i try to hang out with often but he is tied in with the group and difficult to get rid of. thanks again.

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I had a situation like this recently, had to ditch my best friend of 12 years because he would constantly cock block. Or just straight up take my chicks, talked to him about it and it just happened again over a girl I really liked. Basically told him to go fuck himself, he has no idea what he did wrong, never remembers me claiming any girls that he took... I realized I could argue with him all day and get no where, fuck him, I'll see him in a few years to gloat in my success, if I feel like waisting time. lol

Know when to move on and lose the baggage. Some people cannot be changed, and you already know you're not one of those.

Don't sarge with buddies.

You wouldn't have sex with the girl with your buddy winging you would you?

I've always had more success with no wings.

Why not sarge with buddies?

If he gets a girl one night and I don't... no big deal, but if I find out that he tells my girl I'm a flaming homo, she leaves me, and 15 min I see her with my chick. And this happens consistently then I'd tell the guy to go fuck himself.

He's only joking, man

Stop taking shit so personal.




On a more serious note, whatever he does to get you down=it's funny. Laugh at it, bullshit around with the dude.

Nobody who is out to tool you and you make it a joke will react: "man, im bad at tooling" but will rather be like "haha, yeah it's all jokes"

so had a chat with this guy and its exactly like you're saying he continues to screw with my game. he's completely blind to it and has no idea he is doing it (I know how can someone be so completely ignorant towards something especially after we talked about it). I gave him a couple jokes back just was playful but he still destroyed the entire set bc he wasnt getting what he wanted so i let him know thats it we are not gaming any women together.

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give him a nickname. "yeah, thats Baby Carrots over there"

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ijCSu87 ... rn-1r-4-HM

Well your friend is fucked up. He is one of those people who can't allow other people to be happy if he isn't. This sucks for you.

The easiest solution and the one that you will eventually turn to - moving to a different friend.

I know this is hard, but you can't change him. You need to realize that.

OR!!!!

You can just go out with him to hang out with him, and be a friend. Then you won't fight over pussy.

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