There was this cute little HB7 today, we we're talking, and I was this close to teasing her, but then I thought it would've been a bad idea. Reason is, at the end of class, I simply asked her which way she's walking. She became nervous and just blurted out "uhh UP!" I lol'd and said we'll go "up" together. Then this is what happened when we were walking outside, before we parted. (We were talking about cars)

Her: Yeah I have a 2004 Tacoma

Me: Really, a truck?

Her: Yeah I love trucks. This one is lifted.

Me:.... Don't remember what I said, but this is what I wanted to say.

"Really? Can your foot even reach the gas pedal? " But then I felt like I shouldn't do it because she isn't a confident girl. I dunno if that quote would be considered teasing, neg, or both. (If she was hotter/confident, I def would hit her with it)

Now I'm trying to analyze the situation, and think of what I should've said. Maybe something not so harsh, for example, "Really? That's so cute. Little HERNAME next to big Tacoma. Priceless... " While I'm pulling her in by the waist and making motions with my free hand.

What do you think?

Lets see if I can help.

PUA like David Deangelo, and others teach their material for confident girls, and that's why they teach negs and cocky comedy. Their material actually recommends to filter out not so confident girls like the one you just lost, because in usual casis, it's the not so confident ones that will not respect boundaries.

Usually not so confident girls all want good guys who understand them, ones who don't tease, joke, play mind games, or do anything that's not completely devoted to her. But when it comes to them understanding guys, they hold no value to it and simply will not do it.

If you want a girl decide how you should behave, and feels that nobody should decide how she behaves, do whatever you can to charm one of these girls.

But PUA say if you do want to charm one of these girls, do what most nice guys do, go easy on her and just be nice. She'll like you for it, and probably a bit too much, you wont be long before you wanna get carried out of the relationship kicking and screaming. :p


Long Story Short: These are one of the girls you don't want, ones that can't take a joke.