Hey, I have recently been with a girl from my school that has something with another guy.. Nothing serious, just a fling.. Anyways we kissed the first time we we were at a party together.. She invited me home to her apartment, but she had menstrual, so we didn't have sex.. She was pretty horny tho, haha.
Anyways, after we kissed for a while, she told me to not put any feelings in it, and I said "Haha, I won't" and smiled.. Then the day after, I texted her and told her "Thanks for last night ", then she got crazy and told me we never should of kissed, and she regrets it a lot.. And it's never gonna happen again..
But I like this girl, and I'm not sure if I should try kissing her when we are at a party again.. (Which will happen soon, already planned on Friday)..
With the IOI's etc, I'm getting a lot of them and a lot of kino, but I'm not sure if this is because we are just friends, or because she wants something more, but hides it..?
I'm also kinda frightened, that she has me as a backup plan, encase something goes wrong with the other guy she has a fling with.

Thanks in advance for the help guys!

PS. I'm from Sweden, so sorry if my English isn't understandable.. (Tell me if you don't understand me!)
PS2. I'm young, and under 18.. If that helps, haha

- Tom.

Bump..
Anyone, please?

"Thanks for last night" is not a great text, because it implies that she gave you something that she didn't have to and that you have to thank her for this. Better to just say "was fun seeing you" or "had a great time."

I wouldn't try to kiss her in public. Right now she obviously regrets her decision for any number of reasons. Doing something public would be exactly the wrong thing to do.

Instead just focus on having a good time at the party and game other women. Make her jealous first, and then get a bit of time to isolate her, apply the kino using push/pull and see if you can sort out your logistics properly to extract. If not, you still have all the other girls at the party so it wouldn't be that big of a deal anyway

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I would have negged her ass so badly. Compared to other people, I'm more of a douchebag. When she said "Ok but don't put your feelings in it" I would have said, "What do you take me as...some robot???" And then showing rejecting body language while being friendly by switching the subject to something normal. Like picking up her remote, turning on her t.v. and saying, "Wonder what's on t.v." I mean stuff like that may not be LMR, but it's just as bad. Do not ever put up with stuff like that. Saying "haha ok" to that was not ok. But we learn from mistakes, so next time you'll be prepared. That will REMOVE her bullshit because she is bullshitting you by kissing and saying to not put feelings in it. I mean if you think about it, a kiss is a kiss, it can't be something mechanical. She is very wrong on her part and does not deserve to be kissed like that.

Then if she would say, "Get out." I would just say, "Nah, I like your cozy appartment, come here and watch this with me" Then if she said it again, I'd get up and leave saying, "Alright, you're just one of those grumpy girls. Learn to treat people right." If she would be saying anything bad back to me, I'd just say, "You've done enough." with the "You've" being stressed; while walking out...You're making her feel guilty, you're not taking a bit of her shit, you're moving on. Big deal. (not really, she'll either be thinking seriously about her actions after that or chase back after you).

Dont get anymore emotionally involved in this one, if she has you as a second option, make her your third option. Your gonna kiss alot of girls in your lifetime, dont expect a relationship from them, just enjoy the ride and stay cool.

I know it's popular to say "drop this girl and move on", and this is one of those cases. A girl that cared for you in the least wouldn't have said that and if she does, she's got some issues up in the factory she needs to work out. You dont need that in your life. You need someone with a little consistency.

I know it seemed like you had a good opportunity, but take it for what it is and move on. Dont stress over her anymore. If she wants you gone, be gone.

I can guarantee with a girl like this, your gonna have to continuously put up with bullshit like this before, during, and after any kind of relationship with her.

Sometimes girls like casual little flings with guys from time to time, and if she was in a relationship at the time she's obviously got low morals so why even get anymore involved with her than you just did? I'll bust on any man just as much as a girl for going outside of a relationship. Noone is exempt,
Thats why I have a phobia about relationships anyway ;p I run from them like I do from spiders and snakes.

Thanks a lot for the replies guys, appreciate it.

I'll just try to game some other girls at the party later, and see how she reacts, if and if I get to isolate her, get the kino and the ioi's, and then I'll try to extract..

As of a relationship, I am not sure what she wants right now, but we text constantly and we always have a good time when we're together.. But if she can't decide on what she wants, I'll just move on I guess.

Anyways, thanks again guys, I'll report back what happened, if you're interested