I have been debating writing this, but I figure I might as well. This was a Halloween Party. I dressed up as a construction worker and just wore jeans, a sleeveless tee, and a toolbelt. It was good because I am a pretty muscular guy. I was only going with my two friends, but one of them was dumb and brought three other guys and a girl. And he picked me up to go at midnight. We probably got there around 12:15. Needless to say, I was pissed when I walked into the door, but at least I got some good instant social proof by conspicuously greeting the host of the party as soon as I walked in.

I was already a little tipsy because I'd had two shots of my cousin's moonshine (yes it is straight out of the hills of KY and it is sooo strong:) ) and I also had a Four Loko. We all went out to the deck in the back so they could drink a little and loosen up. To get to the deck, we pass the dance floor, the kitchen, and the beer pong table. I am noticing that there are so many dudes there, and it made me pretty apprehensive.

We are standing on the deck talking, there are lots of guys talking to each other out there, and I am scouting out the area. I asked one girl what she was dressed up as, and her friend intervened and said, "she's dressed up as Beth." No idea what this meant, I assumed it was her name. I just turned back around. A few minutes later, about 7 girls walk out. My friend and I knew one of them from the last party there. She is dressed as a sexy cop, and her friends look good too. I start talking to HB 7.5 (dressed as Flash) and am making her laugh a lot. I asked her if she wants to dance and she said sure. I grab her hand and she leads me to the dance floor. We are grinding for a while, she is good. After a while, we went back outside, holding hands still.

Once outside, I spot HB 8 and start talking to her. Keep in mind that this girl, I believe, came with the other one. I asked her to dance. She said that she wasn't very good, and I said that's ok. In the same fashion, holding hands, she leads me to the dance floor. She is not very good, but we get through it, then go back outside holding hands.

I was pretty tipsy at this point, but I still had my wits about me. We all stayed outside talking for a while, and then all moved into the dance floor.

This is where it gets interesting.

All of the girls that came together are in this room, and so are a lot of other people at the party. I was dancing again with the Flash girl, putting my hand up her skirt and playing with her thong, talking some, and then I kissed her cheek. I turned her around and leaned in and then we were making out, right in front of everybody. It was pretty cool. After that we just started dancing again, and kissed again. I told her we should go outside and talk, but she said she didn't think that was a good idea. (I suppose ASD)

After that, I am talking to my friend when a strange girl comes up to me and says, "hey that girl you were kissing is a lesbian. She's my girlfriend. Leave her alone." Then she walked away. Obviously I was like WTF, there's no way she's a dyke. I walked over and told the girl I didn't believe her, and went back to the dance floor.

Then I grabbed HB 8 and starting dancing with her again. I put my hands up her skirt and start feeling her panties. We sit down on the couch and people started yelling that the cops were outside, so everybody needs to be quiet. I looked at HB8 and say, "We might get arrested. These could be our last few minutes of freedom, how should we spend them?" Then I leaned in and we started kissing. It was great! I was also feeling on her bra and put my thumb down to her nipple. After this I got up and talked to my friend some more. He told me that I was doing great (so was he by the way, with other girls) and he said that a while before, he saw some AFC approach HB 8 and she told him that she had a bf! That really made me feel cool!


Here is the interesting social dynamic: everytime I got done kissing (probably about 4 times in total), her friends would be glaring at me. I ignored it, but was pretty confused until:

I started talking to a third girl. (I got shot down, she said I was full of myself) After this I started talking to my friend again, when one of the girls who was friends with the two I was with came over and said, "Are you going to hit on all my friends tonight?" I was really confused (but didn't show it) and I just said the first thing that came to my mind, "Yeah, I am." She looked kind of taken aback, and just resumed dancing.

After that I was dancing with Flash girl again, she kept on grabbing my toolbelt and pulling me in closer. She reached behind her and started caressing my head. I pulled her in and whispered in her ear, "You are giving me such a hard on baby" and she said, "you're welcome." She started grinding harder after that! I could have taken outside at this point probably, but was feeling more interested in HB 8.

I called my brother to come pick me up, he said he was on his way. I just danced and talked till he got there, when I went over to HB 8 and told her that I was about to leave. I asked her when she was on campus, and she told me. Then I said that we are going to eat lunch this week, and she said ok. Honestly I am trying to get better at reading body language. This girl seemed a lot more innocent than the others, and it showed. The way she smiled, the voice inflection when she said 'ok' really all pointed to being excited about seeing me again.

Then I left, the cops were gone, and my friend kept texting me about how much the other girl wanted me. Seemed like a pretty good night.

Why do you think their friends got so angry? Were they jealous? Or did they legitimately not like me?

I am still new to the game, but one thing that I really noticed is that throughout the whole night, I had a very strong confidence level up. And the girls really responded to that.


Comments will be very much appreciated. Also, please critique!

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They were probably jealous, that and women tend to get defensive when they are in groups. The important thing is how well you did with the girls you mention, if the others were giving you a bad look is irrelevant. Haters gonna hate.

Also, why were there cops outside?

sounds like you did great. and if you are asking why did her friends get mad? i think its very common. 1st they are jealous you didnt choose them. 2nd they dont trust you and think you might take advantage of their drunk friend. and the one that claimed to be her girlfriend prolly hooked up with her a few times and is ultra jealous.

sometimes you just ignore them, sometimes you try to win them over. just depends on situation.

did you f close this girl later?

Thanks, I am pretty new so it was very interesting to see how they try to keep their friends away from guys. To be honest I feel like kind of a douche for telling that girl I was gonna hit on all her friends. I really am going to stop drinking very much, if at all.

The cops were outside because it was a house party and it got really loud. I assume someone called them. Happens a lot

thanks, I will factor in their friends into my pick-up equation next time. It seems like it really is important to win them over, they have enormous influence over other the other girls.

No I didn't f-close. I totally could have, as she kept grabbing me and was getting really aggressive with me toward the end. I just couldn't though, physically, b/c of the alcohol and I was very tired. My bro picked me up and my friend kept texting me that the girl really wanted to f me.

I texted them both on Monday, got no response from either of them. My guess is that their friends were yelling at them about me (must have been a hell of a car ride home with both those girls and their friends lol) and probably they don't trust me either b/c I was kissing one right in front of the other.

Basically i have learned many lessons from this. And number one is - don't kiss one girl in front of the other one and all her friends.

A friend's sister everytime that goes out with her friends always uses the "we are lesbians" line to drive guys away. So once more, don't let that bother you, bitch shields and nothing more.

if you want to be good at pua i found you have to make sure you dont get too drunk. although once you get to be a master, im guessing you can get drunk and still pick up easily. my hosttest pick up was the first time i ever stayed sober at the club. girls love it when you arent drinking and everyone else is and you are still 100% confident. tell them you aren't drinking because you are driiving and you never drink and drive. One of the best parts of staying sober is you can drive the girl home or to your house.

yeah i agree if u were actually interested in one of the girls kissing multiple girls in front of others is big mistake if your plan is for a day 2. you could maybe make it work if you f-closed the first night. the good news is you must be good at opening and good at kino and creating attraction, and you arent scared to go for the kiss. now learn the rest!

That is a good idea. Whenever I go to another party, I will keep the drinking to a bare minimum. I do think it looks more appealing to girls if you have a drink in your hand at least.

Damn man it is good to hear someone say that! I have been working on this stuff for literally 1.5 years or so, just broke through my AA for the most part. I have been opening chicks everywhere at school during the day, and being confident in my personality, it has gone very smoothly so far. I sure as heck won't be scared to open at a party now, so I don't even need alcohol.

Thanks. I am glad to hear about someone else having experience with this line. It totally threw me off for a few minutes. It is just so lame lol