heyy guys, to what extent does the dance floor have on your overall game? and does it matter what style of dancing you do at a club? coz i do freestyle/robot/MJ style dancing, but not sure whether that would sound normal at a club. i posted this question just to make sure of it all coz i turn 18 pretty soon, so am able to hit the clubs then.

Cheers guys, and keep up with the gaming

Dancing is good.

okay..so i've been interested in the same subject few weeks ago plus i m turning 18 soon
anyway i found some awesome stuff on youtube about PUA dancing...i saw some dance moves and even kclose moves while dancing...i dnt remember the links tho
try searching "PUA dance" or somethn like that on youtube i m sure you'l find somthn
cheers

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If you enjoy dancing then by all means, dance. The point of going out to clubs is to have fun anyway right. However, using your dancing skills, or lack thereof, in a showoff kinda way to attract girls is usually not a good bet. You kind of become a jester and DLV yourself. Again, I've got nothing against dancing and having a good time but I wouldn't recommend using dancing as a basis for picking up women.

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If I'm going out and I KNOW dance will be involved, I always bring my favorite hat, giving it a quick spray of cologne on the INSIDE before I leave the house.

I have a few flip-tricks I do with it, but my favorite routine is taking it off and putting it on my target's head once she's heated up, then disappearing into the crowd.

I've found that this has all kinds of benefits.

* You're symbolically claiming her as yours (showing dominance)

* You've given her an excuse to look for you, keeping you on her mind

* Most importantly, though, this anchors the hat to how she felt when she was with you NLP-style, and your scent on it will be a constant subtle reminder of how much she wants you.

As for your question on dance style... it's basically irrelevant. As long as you're ALWAYS having fun and don't care what others think you're golden. Don't use moves to show off, use them to HAVE FUN.

To dance?.. or not to dance.. the timeless question.

There are 3 key things I had to figure out before I managed to work a dancefloor with confidence and skill, it's difficult - but after a little while I've managed it to a rather high degree os success.

1. You can dance consertatively, or as wild as you want - just as long as you in time with the music.. Beat you that rhymically retarded person inside you, and learn to move your feet. I know a lot of PUAs (my wing for example) that when they pull a girl to the dancefloor (or vice versa) his feet just get stuck to the floor. Not literally ofcourse.
Learn to step in beat of the music - and if you watch some music videos and learn a little bit of the moves, weather they be Jay-z pish.. and Lady Gaga's drivvel.. (I'm a heavy metal fan myself - i'm my own time!)

2. Teach yourself to dance (or get lessons..). The first thing I taught myself was Salsa.. you'd be surprised that if you mix hip-hop and salsa style of dancing - they work very well together..
Everyone has seem cock-teasing women grinding up against some guy - but the chode has his hands in the air.. like he just don't care......
No positive kino there at all, just guys doing Doctor Roboto..
And believe it or not - most women can dance.. it's almost like they're born like that. So you have to step up to their level - and blow them away..

When i'm dancing with a HBx - it'll start with something innocent, little a bit of bumping, but then when they are facing you - extend our arms out, take their hands and twirl her around - now they are pressed against your body, and your hand is around they're waist.. from there you salsa the shit out of them..

Here is link to an extreme version of what I've learned: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNni_Rt0fj4[/youtube]

As you see - high in kino, and if you look at the guy dancing, he's not ultra athletic (i'm sure as hell not.... ) and doesn't move a massive amount - just knows how to control his woman.

Now, like I just mentioned - i'm not exactly a small guy.. I'm a towering at 6"3' in my shoes (and for you non-Brits, just google 6ft3..) and pretty much like a rugby player build. Heavy. but light on my feet.
So this in itself is intimidating to some little dancer girl - who, I can see looking at me.. but I know if I was to go over there, look down at her and her friends - all of them would shy away immediately.

3. Get a pivot comfortable dancing with you: When I go into a club - i've usually got my wing and my SPAM (who my wing is nailing.. lucky bastard. The walls are fucking thin in my flat.. sometimes I feel the need to have a guilt wank....)

ANYWAYS!.. back to the point. Go out to the club, with your little Pick-Up-Army, get the wing to open some sets while I work my stuff with my SPAM / pivot. On the dancefloor, just dance relatively sexy, in time, outlandish dancing and soon enough all eyes will be on you.. but not in a bad way.. i've had a few people awestruck by the gaul it takes to go into a nearly empty dancefloor and dance the socks off with someone..
Make it obvious that i'm not seeing her - but she's a friend.. chodes at the bar will buy my pivot drinks all night, and the girl that looks like she can move her stuff is 90% of the time more that keen to dance it out with me as well.

As the one that dances great is usually good looking / alpha female - her friends will then submit as well..

Job done.

In a rush?..
Summary:
1. Dancing ain't about learning routines that only fit particular songs..
learn to step in time..
2. learn to dance somthing.. weather is it cool hip hop, sexy salsa, are Pedo-bear dancing...... whatever.
3. If possible - get a pivot to dance with you first.. it flaunts your skills straight away without trying, shoots social proof to the moon, and makes you "OMG! you're THAT guy dancing earlier! with that blonde girl!.. You two a couple!?.... no?.. hmmmm "

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While know how to dance for real is great, I don't even think it's necessary. I don't know and I still do fine. As long as you can move them hips to the rhythm you'll do ok. Where dancing helps is rapid kino escalation. Mostly I like to open girls with talk first and then if its going well pull them to the dancefloor for kino. But later in the night after a few beverages if i don't have a target i'm working on yet I'll open by dancing with girls.

When trying to open on the dancefloor, don't be the creepy guy that sneaks up behind a girl and starts grinding up on her ass. And don't move around the dancefloor like you're on the prowl, pick a spot and let the girls come to you. If you're having fun and it shows girls may even come and start grinding up on you. Approach from the front, take her hand and do the twirl move, then don't pull you're hand away right away. See if she keeps holding it as that is a major IOI. Lastly, don't get stuck dancing with her all night. Can't tell you how many times I did that when I was younger only to have the girl leave me standing there alone when the club closed. After a few songs pull her away to a quieter spot so you can talk and build comfort and get her #.

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