Here’s a good routine that I’ve been running for the past month or so. Works like a charm. First of all, the idea came from a night out playing billiard while sarging the two waitresses. My game was working great. I was with a friend (Boot-It) and we were about to get the numbers. However, when a third party dropped in the set, things started to change for worst. What happened next blew our minds. We got played by the third one. Boot-It and I weren’t interested in the two initial girls anymore, we were talking about the third one! So, obviously, her game worked. She saw that we were playing her two friends, and dropped the “Attention” neg on my friend, Boot-It. Boot-It never saw it coming, but we did learn from it, and now, that same routine played on girls have given us many phone numbers.

What is that neg? Using the line: “are you looking for attention?” or “I think you’re in need of attention aren’t you?” As soon as your drop the “Attention bomb” on her, leave the set immediately.

In a set, you would generally talk to the group and start by excluding the one you’re after. Then, after you hear one or two words from "the one"… drop the attention neg on her.

Boot-It and I used it many times and it works every time. We found that the girl will open every conversation with the same thing… either “I’m looking for attention now,” “how about you give me a bit of attention?” etc. And guess what (remember when I said that you should leave the set when you neg her), don’t worry, she’ll come back to you. IOIs! And then, you can do whatever you want with her. Separate her from the set and call it a win.

Good luck!

Good Thinking!

interesting i like it

Interesting stuff.

Wouldn't women either;
a) Act perplexed / not 'chase' after you. Reason being - they know you're hitting on them ... assuming you're being playful with a cheeky grin?
or
b) Just reply with an "Ugh, no."

Is there a particular 'stereotype' you find this works with Five-o?

By the way - not doubting you on it. Sounds like it could be a real winner, but most of the women down this way would rarely (if ever) approach a guy under any circumstances. I'll definitely try this out next time though.

Good day,

This line is meant to be a small rebuttal in response to your HB trying to interrupt or trying to get your attention.

When I use this line, it usually goes like this.

1 - Open a medium to large set.
2 - give your attention and speak to anyone other then your HB
3 - run a few routines with the group to disarm them, and usually at some point your HB will try to intervene or ask you a question. This is when you respond with, "wow, you seem like a girl who needs a lot of attention don't you" or similar, you can point this comment towards the group in a F+C way : "Wow, does she always demand this much attention?"

4 - you finish off a few things with the set, giving a few looks towards your HB.

What I find works is that either she will request your attention as Five-O said, or you can turn to the rest and say :

Ok, well I’m gonna give HB my attention for a few minutes I promise I’ll bring her back ok?

and now you isolate her ... and run the close.

Personally I like to vary my openings and engagements, mostly because I like the idea of trying new things, however I did put this line in my list of things to say and use when I need it.

This line is not meant to be an opener or a flat drop ...

As for the girls approaching, what Five-O meant, and he may correct me on this, is that the HB you have "marked" and slightly excluded from the set, will come in later on.

Now as for stereotypes, I cannot see how this line wouldn't be useful on everyone. It is very simple and direct. The important part is when you deliver it, do not deliver it with a tone of anger and directness... you need to have a playful tone.

I have been trying to deliver negs with a slight air of amusement more and more, but everyone is different.

Ok, well hopefully this helps,

- cheers

Boot-it