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okay, as I approach a more intermediate level I'm ironing out more of the kinks so I think i'll share my knowledge.
1. In cold approaches its usually better to use indirect game, Heres why: They cant use the "I have a boyfriend" excuse... cuz you come off platonic and that would be socially awkward.. You get Less Resistance... and It gives you an opportunity to create Value.
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2. VALUE comes before everything else.. It prevents flaking.. and it makes ur attraction stick.. You need to have perceived value weather its Via social proofing, looks, or however you need to..
3. Attraction IS NOT 100% effective at getting it in.. You need the value to avoid flaking, or else ur really just a monkey who makes everyone laughs and tells interesting stories... and once you do have value and attraction, You need trust.. And Qualification.. in other words She has to feel a connection with you... and that you want her for more than just sex or her looks... Sometimes You Can Build The Trust while At The Same time eliciting that she has some qualities about her that ur attracted to other than the obvious ones...
I agree with you completely! But that's why this is such a difficult game. Average men really don't have much value, we can gladly consider average frustrated chumps are the "percieved" least valuable excuse of matter we have on the planet.
Now note I said "percieved", because I don't want to offend any AFC's that may be in this forum because in all reality, AFC's are still human, and perception is pure B.S. if we can just realize it. But perception is still a strong thing, eh! :p
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