Alright, so i met this real cute girl at a party a few weeks ago. I was in the whole "self amusement" mood with my buddies so I sort of appealed to her as she witnessed the sociable guy I am (Not to sound like a douche). We just had some friendly conversation in a group, didn't really think much of it. I went back to school, she stayed in my home town.

So a few days later she chatted me up on FB and for about a week or two she would continue chatting me up. I was just casually flirting with her; it was fun talking and all. I'll try to cut to the point haha.

Couple weeks later, I drive into town and meet up with friends as well as her at a rock show. I continue to use the self amusement tactic. I talked with her a lot during the show, but i tried not to suffocate her with attention. After we leave she gives me a CD as a gift that says "Txt me sometime, i hate FB chat"

AND SO... We've been texting a lot recently. In my opinion too much. I feel like I've been OVERLY friendly and amused. On a few instances shes stopped texting me, but gives a legit excuse the next day. I want to convey to her that i am DTF and I'm interested in her sexually. I can't really tell if shes being nice in general because shes really sweet or if shes being very subtle about wanting to hook up. Hopefully, someone has advice or words of encouragement, thanks a lot! And my apologies for the lengthy post, it's my first.

Well, I don't know how to fix this other then just give it a shot and see what happens.

But next time, you need to learn how to mix "self amusement" and i think is "seduction" together.

If your just self amusing yourself but not advancing sexually at all, your gonna be a dancing monkey. On other hand, if your just advancing sexually, you might creep her out.

Stop texting so much, arrange a day 2, kino escalate using push-pull, close.

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Right, i was planning on using some kino on day 2. Push-pull is a great idea, thanks; the catch is that theres some distance between us (physical), so arranging a day 2 won't happen for a while. I'm trying to maintain some attraction and interest through texts, which is lame, but regardless i think that's what I'm failing at, as well as making her qualify herself. I'm pretty sure i can turn this one around, i just dug myself hole to begin with.

You said it yourself mate! Maintain interest by throwing out random fun texts with no expectation of a reply, like "I just saw your twin" or "omg the most random thing happened" or whatever. Then when she gets back to you, intrigued, phone or text her back and arrange a day two. There is NO NEED for any more texts other than

1. Your contact info when you first meet her
2. A random funny text on the way home
3. Another random one a few days later
4. One arranging a day 2
5. A nice one after you fucked her so she doesn't feel like a slut
6. One arranging the next time to meet

That's SIX texts and you've fucked twice.

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Haha i like it, i like it man!

I said I dug myself a hole because the first night or two that shes texted me, we just kept texting. Just last night she stopped texting me randomly cause she fell asleep or whatever. I didn't try texting after, but today she sent a message trying to continue the conversation. I feel like a fuckin 13 year old talking about texting like this, but since its temporarily long distance it's all i got!

Should I just ignore her for a couple days, or would that be too sudden of a change? Tell her I don't usually text a girl this much, then apply your random/fun texts advice? I've got to start gaming this right

Yes you should. A sudden change makes you INTERESTING, DIFFERENT, a CHALLENGE, and KEEPS HER GUESSING. These are all GOOD THINGS.

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Yeah, i have to stop worrying about "gaming". When i'm natural things flow better. I suppose I got paranoid after taking some unnecessary advice from a friend.

All I can say is WOW.