Delivery, probably the most unrecognized , unemphasized trait in this community yet the most beneficial.
This post is dedicated to this trait , to highlight it and to make you question your own delivery . Delivery is an important tool . And for gurus out there looking to make a bit of money this would be a gold mine to invest into.
Its not what you say its how you say it
example of what I mean
The differences between There, their , theyres and where were and wears
Each of theese words sound the same yet is delivered in a different way in different socail settings . e.g.
I love what your wearing ! - this is delivered in a form of a statement compared to wheres mike which is delivered in a form of a interrogative .
Ok so ive highlighted the basics you probably understand that right ?
A more extreme example which maybe be relevant to you
girl : You best like the band XXXXX or me and you are through

guy : yeah i love the .....................nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ( Its funny because the first part of what the guy was saying was misleading to what his end statement was) Its probably not funny reading it , due to the fact that this has to be delivered properly !
When Im talking about delivery Im thinking Timing , Body language ,1000s of facail expressions , holding silence ,emotion, throwing funny looks , body rocking , vocal pitch , social setting , reactions , raising eyebrows , scratching your head , rubbing an imaginary goatee .... you get me
Think about it if any of you guys have ever opened and have been shot down instantly then your delivery was wrong in some sort of way . I.E. The girl was pissed off ( check her body language)this would fall under social setting ,your vocal tone wasn't interesting enough , if it was an opinion opener maybe your facial expressions didn't look intrigued in what they had to say, so you seemed false.
sometimes a great delivery is using all of these and then other times its like you don't need to use many of them.
These are all general examples and its up to you to question your own delivery and whether your delivering your material right, whether you appear legit .
For those looking to improve their delivery you can only learn by experience . Practice facial expressions , Work on your voice tone , watch stand up comedians ! ( they're gold for this sort of stuff)
and for those that may disagree with the importance of it answer this . Why do we require Emoticons faces for talking to people on the internet ?
Goodluck
