Hi, still going OK!

Saw her today, on her own in the coffee bar. She noticed me and smiled, so I went over and joined her. Seems her collegues weren't around. Went fine, she's very natural, none of the "edge" you tend to get with an HB10. Also, not a comment about the obvious age gap.

But as you said, I kept it cool and left after 30 mins, saying I'd see her again. Next time I'll try for her number, what do you think? Just don't want to mess this up, she's so hot!! Best legs and prettiest face I've ever seen on a girl that I've met!

Just one thing, looks like a wedding ring on her finger, but she gave no clue as to whether she's attached or not, so i'll not bring it up. Wouldn't be suprised, how could a girl so gorgeous be single at her age?

Andy

More often than not, you'll always want to go direct.

Direct--direct--direct
Don't go in indirect because the older women are more cynical as a result of their experience. The older women know what they want and don't have time for games. You'll probably get blown out indirect.

You're more than likely going to get shit tests in the form of: "You're young."
Don't make it a big deal. If you MAKE it a big deal it'll become one. The worst response is "I'm mature for my age."
Instead, say something like:" Yeah, I know you like it." or "Yeah, now you have to start giving me allowance..."

I'm telling you right now that this is the biggest shit test you'll get so now you'll have forehand knowledge.
The best sex you'll have in your life will probably be from MILFs go for it bro
good luck...

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This is how I feel, does that make me an AFC ???

Chris is right, 90% chance your about to enter shit test galore when you start making moves, and how you move things is key.

Don't take this the wrong way, she probably hasn't given any indication of her marriage etc because she doesn't see you as a potential threat to it, whether that's her general mentality or you haven't come across in a funny way yet, use that as a positive.

I'd also go more direct next time, but I'd be mixed up about asking for a number next time, seen as she is older and more mature, plus you see her on a regular. If all goes well, suggest you meet sometime outside hours for a drink, where things are a bit more "relaxed".

That's the route I'd go.

Good luck!

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Well, so far so good. Met her again today for coffee, she's still very natural, lots of smiles and good body language. No mention of age difference, no mention of any hubby. Got her name too, it's Helen

So I asked her to go for a drink after work, but she said she didn't know when she could. Just when I was thinking "What do I do now?", she says "Give me your number, and I'll call when I'm free" So we swapped numbers, properly as well by dialling each other's mobiles.

Said she's on hol next week, but she's call during that to fix a date. We then went back to work.

What do you reckon? Think she's playing games? Also if she doesn't ring after next week,what then - wait till I see her in the cafe - ring her?

Andy

To be honest, I fail to see why a hot, mature woman would play games. I think she see's your kool, friendly etc and see's something good in you. Now, don't come across needy or persist.

Just bide your time, game other women, even if it's indirect, for experience purposes, then you can use that on her if that makes sense, I.E funny routines and ways to kino successfully. If she doesn't ring, don't worry, you'll see her again, don't mention the call, see if she says anything.

Or run the line" Hey, how convenient that I saw you here, the day after we exchanged numbers I accidently wiped/lost my phone"

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Thanks, you clearly are a man with wide experience in this area!

I'll play it cool and think about somewhere nice to take her if it comes off. She's very glamorous and well dressed, so I guess somewhere stylish

Andy

Sometimes women can be unpredictable, actually most of the time! You can take her to somewhere that's mediocre, if it happens, it'll be your company and the relationship you build that'll dictate if the night was good, the venue only helps a bit .

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Well, she rang today!

A surprise though. She asked me if I wanted to go to an "event" this Sat eve with her and some of her frirends. Seems she has a spare ticket for this event, and we all meet in C.London and go on from there.

Won't tell me what the event is, wants it to be a surprise. I reckon it's a ticket to a top club on an invite only night, especially as she said the dress is smart casual.

Of course I said yes, but don't really know what to make of it. What do you think?
Andy

My experience also learns that older women are far better to approach. Maybe because they don't expect getting seduced by younger men..

Quality Andy, go for it, just look sharp not overly done. I'm thinking smart jeans, a shirt or white smart t shirt with a blazer and shoes, a really kool look, an image a hot mature woman would appreciate. Also smell good!

Just have fun, this is what you wanted, maybe it's come sooner than you wanted, but good!

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Thanks, think I can run to that outfit!

Just a bit concerned that she's coming with friends. When I invite a girl out, I don't bring my mates along!

Andy

hi andy, if i can add my two'penneth on this one, perhaps she doesnt want to be in a potentially awkward situation with you, friends make it just that bit more of a civilised social occasion rather than a one on one date, and her mates get to weigh you up and decide what they think too ...not to put any additional pressure on or anything...

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Helen: "Always look on the bright side of life"?
James: No, "Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition."

Agree and well said Ariana. Andy, be yourself, she obviously likes the way you are, so her friends are bound too, she wouldn't bring you out otherwise, plus her friends may be hot, look on the bright side, worst comes to worse, your gaining experience and expanding your social circle.

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My only suggestion is dating her daughter first. :p

Andy,

Well played -

If she is married , letting her call you lets her decide when and where is appropriate to meet - best to take her cues on timing if she is married.

And ... she would not have called if she wasn't interested - and by being not needy about knowing where the place was or about her friends was good - as mentioned earlier, her friends might be there to evaluate you ... or ... her friends might mysteriously not show up ... in other words, it may have been a red herring to see how you would react.

Saturday night outing is interesting. Have fun and I am looking forward to reading the LR!

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