Theres a beautiful and in shape HB9 who Ive had my eye on since I broke up with my ex gf...its been a few months now and let me explain the irony. I met my ex at this same gym...she comes in at the same time...she has the same body type except darker eyes and hair. Anyway a very trustworthy source found out that she has claimed that I was the guy of her dreams a few months ago based on my physical appearance only. I always catch her looking but whenever I go near her she totally ignores me by looking down and is extremely shy...talks to no guys.

I feel her eyes on me every time Im NOT looking at her and I had an inclination that she is interested since I could feel her nonverbal communication based turmoil when I come nearer in proximity...in other words she gets nervous.

Im thinking of doing some long term seduction here...not just a one night thing. Im not used to these circumstances since I know crucial information before going in...was planning on turning down the cocky n funny since its really not needed...I was thinking of a calm and direct approach...strong eye contact....simply asking her how shes doing....or do you guys think I should utilize my normal game and make her laugh...wait for ioi's and game her like all the rest of them...?

Catch her on the way OUT of the gym next time. Strike up a conversation, neg her for being shy and not saying hi to you before. DHV a little, tell a funny story, then when things are going well i.e. she is in the middle of laughing and you're kinoing her, break away and disqualify by saying "you know what, we could never get on cuz you actually look way to much like my ex it's kinda scary. Then "give her a chance" by saying that looks aren't the important thing and it's who the person is underneath that matters. You can start using screening questions that relate to the aspects of your ex that you didn't like, and boom it's qualification time. Once she qualifies herself to you a few times, that's enough nice compliance - get her number and set up a fun day 2 for later that week in the evening.

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One thing ive learnt for sure is that girls will believe that an attractive guy is always with a girl, that is why they never approach us

That is if they are looking at us = they are attracted to us

Once they are attracted to us there is actually no need to go into indirect game, you can actually go straight into Direct game

Value and Social Value are two different things !

I actually read this from a Female PUA - "Once a woman is attracted to you, all you have to do is go direct to make her feel comfortable as she will feel like she has less value than you already, so once you go direct, youll break that and allow her to feel comfortable and let her know subconsciously that she is available to start to feel emotional feelings for you, providing you can make her feel that way"

I cant remember it word for word but that is something along the lines of what she said put into my own words...

You see guys when they get eyed up by guys theyll go in with an opener, it is of course best to go in direct then which i actually found out today rather than i have been wasting all my time going in indirectly and opening girls i knew were already attracted to me.. im assuming its the same for a lot of guys too

This Female PUA also said: "Once a girl is attracted to you and you open her directly, if you go by Mysterys Method then you dont even need to go throguh A1 and A2, you can just skip to A3, hence the direct opener... if it is a set a girl will look away as if ignoring you, this does not mean she is unattracted to you she just believes shes no got enough value to talk to you so bringing that to the attention and giving a small neg "Heey, shows over here.. how rude, gosh, is she always likes this? You can dress her up but cant take her anywhere! haha" AND then qualifying her can also work rather than going through loads of routines

I have yet to try this with a wing by my side to distract the obstacle, but today i did exactly this, and my target did exactly this! looked away, so i did what id read (im glad i rememebred it) and it worked, i didnt close the girl though because my phones broken :/ but you should give it a try...

blondguy:I thought about the joke style comparison to my ex but I was thinking of utilizing that a bit further down the line...unless of course it naturally flows well during the first convo and I can get her to fight for qualification

Straight Up: I agree and may utilize normal game with no opener...I figure she has a mental stereotype of how I act and talk based on my slow, stable and confident alpha body language a the gym...I dont think gaming her too hard will work as well as confidence, steady eye contact and strong body language since in this case she is already quite interested

Ok tonight I went huge guys...walked out slightly behind her and closed like Michael Jordan during the NBA finals...

I went in saying do you come here often...she froze up blurbed something about Halloween and having to be ready to wear her costume...I approached with a sideways stance acting like I was ready to leave at anytime.

I gamed her old fashion style...made her laugh...negs...got ioi's...number closed and possibly could have gotten a kiss if I pushed it.

Only thing I did wrong was after the number close I lingered a bit and pushed my cocky/funny pretty strong...lots of reaction on her part but I feel I could have left her with more mystery and less laughing...no pun intended.

Overall shes in the bag.

Well done! Sounds like you did great. You're absolutely right about the above. It's totally fine to stick around after the n-close, in fact I recommend it. However, you fell into the trap of "overgaming". Remember, C&F, negging, etc. is about building attraction. Once you've got it, you don't need to keep doing it, you can move on to qualification, comfort, etc. otherwise you'll never move things forward and she'll get frustrated or bored.

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I totally agree...now the texting has begun...I texted her one sentence and got 5 in return. I ended it with saying we will get dinner soon. She wrote more but I left it as is...text game is easy but one fatal mistake shows neediness

Went to coffee...K-closed. Really cool chick. Body is ridiculous...like will cause car crashes

Nice work.

There's always that swagger that comes with already knowing a girl's into you. Can't beat it.