Ok guys help;; please..maybe some of you have been in a similar situation. Long story short....I was talking to a hot babe, she's one of those hard catches...anyway we had our thing, went south after a month or two...we would still talk etc...but she then got a bf, can't blame her I messed up even a few months after out thing we would still argue. We didn't talk for a month and then we began ro again. She's really clingy at times, we text a lot more now, BUT I know she still has a bf and though she never brings him up I can catch on sometimes to her little lies and it just blows my head off and I'm not funny and fun with her anymore and that's when I ignore her. And she'll call me out on ignoring her. And she'll offer hugs etc...a friend of mine that's also a hb10 says she's playing games she plays and says she just teasing...I don't think so because that's too much effort she's putting into this whole thing...but then nobody knows what the hell is going thru womens heads lol I really want to game her again but that bf thing nags away my brain, any advice?


And she's always the one to message my blackberry...I never message first idk if I'm doing right or wrong..should I message her once in a while? And I never double message... Thanks

You are experiencing what most guys experience at one point in life. Its the rule of "The girl you fall in love with is usually the girl that teases you the most".

So now its time to snap out of it. Do you realize that every day thousands of women turn 18? There are too many women out there to get this stressed out over one. I have learned this through my years.

Since becoming a PUA I've learned that you can always start over. I've gone threw so many women.. made so many mistakes and YET I'm fine because I can always start fresh with another woman.

This information will free you and make you more relaxed about women.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

i started talking to other girls and decided to put a random friends picture as my screensaver she saw it and automatically called me out on it asking who that was etc and went on to show me a pic of her "bf", i played it cool....said oh thats cool, like it didnt bother me. yesterday we did lunch and after we split she invited me to the park, we went...walked around had nice convo for like 2hrs when we left she said goodbye with a long hug and 2 kisses on the neck....i think i'll keep playing it the way i am, kino some more...but keep juggling as many women as i can...this is kinda fun

what do you guys think? yay or nay? or should i just drop her and continue doing my thing....smashing that hb wouldnt be such a bad idea lol

overall I DO agree with u, but this mindset can bring u to a point where u don't do ANYTHING to get the girl and loose great girls you could have had just because u didn't put in any effort

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Well I think a truly "great girl" would put in some work as well. When I see a girl putting in work for me I realize she is special and I work harder on her.

But women who just sit on their asses and wait for the man to do everything are as replacable as napkins. And if she is bringing drama.. even more so.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think