i've read material from mystery, style, david diangilo and other gurus...but whos advice do you tend to follow? and think works best?

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The best method to use will be based solely on your personality. Some people find NLP suits them, some enjoy C&F, some like MM. If you try something that isn't natural to you (besides the usual discomfort that comes from trying something counterintuitive) then it's just as damaging as nothing at all because your congruence will suffer.

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There isn't any such thing as collecting all the knowledge in the world about PUA and applying everything into your game, there's just too much information out there and too many opinions.

If you watch all the PUA videos, you can clearly see a difference in styles of each PUA, and thats what it boils down to. Finding a style of PUA congruent with your personality and beliefs.

I prefer David DeAngelo and David Wygant types, because I like to keep my game as natural as possible. I started out with MM like most others, shifted through the more gimmicky types but it never stuck with me. Ever since I found the few PUA's that I felt taught pick up the way I was most comfortable with, I LOVE learning it. It's not a chore like it used to be. Writing down openers in a pad on Friday nights. Practicing the High Five and Spin technique, that can all go to hell as far as im concerned. It may not be right for me, but for some I've seen it work like a charm.

Just picture yourself walking up to a girl and gaming her the way you'd feel most comfortable. Would that be a page out of the MM playbook or more of a quaint setting where you spark up a natural conversation? If you're starting out, it doesn't hurt to experiment and listen in to a bunch of different PUA's but it's VERY important to find your own signature and find teachers that are on the same page as you.

If you're a natural conversationalist and already comfortable with women, remembering lines and openers and closers like it was a midterm test wont be your style. If you're starting out and getting you're foot in the door, this might be a good place to start. Either way, make sure you read up alot on inner game and try and pick up a few books on Sexual Psychology between men and women. That alone will give you a big advantage.