so...
i started a convo with a girl through facebook and then i finally got her number...
she gave me her number, and then said that she was afraid of giving it because she usually doesnt give out her number to people she doesnt know.. then she said she would give me the benefit of the doubt...

and thats when i fucked it up... i said that i understood her point of view, cause the internet is a dangerous place, but that i wasnt like a stalker.. then i said "but the fact is i tried to add you and facebook doesnt let me.. humm, maybe they consider me a sexual predator and i dont even know it? "

i know i fucked it up, but i tried to be funny... and in fact i wasnt

so, she didnt reply to me and i know i might have fucked it up, cause i shouldnt be saying that i tried to add her and that maybe im considered a sexual predator and dont even know it...

now i want to know, what should i do??
i was thinking about saying to her that it wasnt me who sent the message but a friend (cause i forgot to logout my facebook at his house), because i dont even have the habit of adding people i dont know and that i would think about her case (if i want or not her benefit of the doubt)...

or should i just stay quiet for a while?

need help here... thanks

so i decided to tell her that i forgot to log out at a friends house, and that he was one who sent that last message

then she replied asking if it was my friend too that asked all the questions and sent all the previous messages and said and i quote "it is up to you if you want the benefit of the doubt i gave to you or if you dont want it =)"

is this a good sign? how should i act from now on?

thanks

so she said she would give me the benefit of the doubt, and give me the number

then i said i would think about her case, and if i wanted her benefit of the doubt

then she said "it is up to you for decide =)"

im thinking of in a couple of days to text her saying "hi. i decided to give you an opportunity"

did i proceed well?
what if she answers me "who are you?" ?? what should i reply to her?

thanks, need help fellas

hey dude, i think u fuckd up but then ideally fixed it.
even tho that 'my friend sent it' is a silly idea, that most women dnt buy.
once damanage is done, nothing fixes it. so in other cases best is to just stay quiet, or proceed in a laughin matter with a new opener.

but in ur case it seemd to have worked good. she must be into you, espeically on what she wrote to ya.

when you text her, i would state about 'give you an opportunity' she might think ur being too cocky. just plaay ur game man, whatever comes to ur head write.. dnt think about it too hard..

even a 'waddup girl... wats going on" is good enuff for first msg.

just make sure u sign it on the end. state ur name/nick name if u have.

anyways good luck dude.

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