Just some background info...This is not one-itis just me being frustrated. I also get a player vibe a lot. My body language is off the chain most of the time, my game is inconsistent and I'm starting to try out some of 60 years of challenge stuff.

My cousin introduced me to her friend who is really cute, and shy, and really innocent, she is still a virgin. She is also not from the U.S. so her English is ok but cracking jokes around her and teasing her doesn't always work out haha, sometimes she gets offended or doesn't understand the joke. ANYWAYS. I met her last week, we text each other everyday and we've hung out 3 or 4 times. EVERYTIME we've hung out we barely talk to each other. It gets a little frustrating when you talk all day and then when you actually meet up in person its NO BUENO. I've toned down my "game" when I'm with her. Let's take last night for example.

10:30 at night my cousin calls me up and say yo lets go to the coffee shop and chill out. I say yea alright sounds good, ill meet up in 30 minutes. I get there early so i find a spot to set up base. My cousin brings like 6 of her friends with her including the girl I'm talking to. A mutual friend came up to me and was like "man she was so pissed off that your cousin didn't tell her you were gonna show up!, she was fixing her hair up and being all giggly in the car man". (IDK BUT I'M PRETTY SURE THESE ARE MASSIVE IOI'S). She goes straight to the bathroom to fix her hair some more. She comes back to our table and I give her a hug, then she sits there...and i try to initiate conversation. Nothing! her friends see what shes doing and later in the night they switch up seats so she would end up next to me. PERFECT...easy for kino and conversation. I put her arms around me...she pushes my arm away. That happens a few more times throughout the night. One time she even said you're making me feel uncomfortable..(all i've done was arm over her, hug, handshake, and ran my fingers in little circles on her shoulder WTF!!)...Kino not working?...hmm lets try some seductive eye contact...she smiles a lot but im still not getting the reaction that i want. After that I just stopped paying attention to her. She tries to touch me later and I say don't touch me, I was kinda mad at that point. Anyways we all leave and i get home at like 2AM, She sends me about 5 texts about being sorry, and sad and whatever. I don't text back until today.

We're texting, trying to clear some shit up. I told her to stop playing me, and that i like her which is lie because i lost so much interest last night, I also asked her if she was interested and she says...lol...yes....no. I'm just trying to see what this chick is doing..and i brought up the kino stuff. She told me its weird to be hugging when you're not bf/gf...I'm just thinking holy shit...we're texting now and..I just LJBF'ed her...

ALRIGHT GUYS...any of yall ever deal with this because this shit is confusing. It seems like the old AFC me would be freaking perfect for this chick.

She told you exactly what was wrong, but you ignored it!

Whether it was your kino or your aggressiveness or your body language, we can't tell you. But SOMETHING you're doing is making her uncomfortable, and you need to figure out what.

You can't just assume that she should be comfortable with it because you did "small" things, or because other girls are comfortable with it.

You're lucky she's still into you. Stop being such a chump and man the hell up before she loses all attraction for you.

She sounds like a child. Start seducing women who aren't underage, at least mentally.

Her being a virgin should have been a red flag from the start. It's good for PUAs to have a no-virgin policy. You don't want to be anyone's first, trust me.

@jellysandwich5: Man the hell up before she loses attraction for me? Dude its the other way around, I'm losing attraction for her. Man the hell up?...dude she can't handle me even when I tone down my game. I tried to play nice boy and that had been working much better. My cousin, the girl's friend said she's has some bad experiences with guys. Like chief said this chick is psychologically immature. I'm just being polite to her now because she's my cousin's friend and so I can get free haircuts from her haha. Also wanna use this as a learning experience so if I ever run into a situation like this I know what I need to do.

@Chief: Cool.


I drive my chick cousin home from school today and she brings her up and we talk about her. Girl keeps texting me and I show her the messages and we're just like "mann this is really painful to read...girl got no game!" A cute girl with no game...idk about that man. My cousin says it's probably because she is from Mexico and has no idea how to flirt...or maybe they just do it differently in different countries...I find it hard to believe though. She also said that this girl likes to take things really slow, and that she is really nervous around me and has "mush brain" that's why she doesn't say much to me. It got me thinking....there's such a thing as an girl AFC?

Yes, yes there is. They're usually the virgins who only know relationships from movies and the like. They're good for the same things that male AFCs are good for - LJBF

I think Chief really gave you the best advice here. Inexperienced (or immature, to be more fair) girls tend to be more of a headache than they're worth.

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I agree...if ur gaming a young girl whos also a virgin you have to change your levels of intensity and take ur time...you obviously were showing her too much attention...plus with a language barrier some of the stuff as going over her head. She wasnt locked in and you gamed her like she was