Ok.. so I got thrown off guard today when this HB10 friend requested me(because lets be honest mostly guys friend request girls who are HB10). A little background information on her. We both graduated recently last year, and I had a few classes with her but barely ever talked to her except maybe about class stuff briefly. I always wanted to talk with her but she seemed quiet and would stick with friends.

So I wanted to send her a message. Do you guys think sending a message private, or on the wall is better?

Does anyone have some suggestions with some openers.. I was just going to open up with conversation like hows your new job going since graduating? but that seems kind of boring.. however i did find out she lives near me but just moved about an hour away.

Any suggestions??

Try to DHV, seem unphased by her beauty, thats the most important thing. To you? She's just another girl. But seem fun at the same time, I would write on her wall You! as an opener and she'll respond with a me? usually works. then 3 days later (non verbal DHV) Message her the jealous gf opener (usually buys me 10 minutes) then neg her on her "bad advice". Those are my canned suggestions

Tell me how it goes :]

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MiM has a decent approach, I personally prefer a little different but I'm sure his would work quite well.

I would send her a message right away and probably jokingly call her a stalker for finding you on Facebook and adding you as a friend. This makes her qualify herself...and then after you played with that for one or two responses, you can get into comfort building with some normal conversation. Keep it interesting and none of the "hey, what's going on?" messages. Also though...don't go TOO far from those and too in depth with your questions..don't quiz her.

sorry to hijack, that would be King Korona's opinion opener am i rite?