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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:27 pm 
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The last few weeks I've been going all out after a relatively dormant phase. All the years of training back into action, and I've been having ridiculous amounts of success. Just too much. And this makes you fucking cocky. Success makes you really cocky. I am getting the best girls, owning all the guys, skipping club queues, not paying for public transport...just everything (lubricated by alcohol) merges into one blur of bossing the world.

I realised, a few days ago, that this made me cocky to a bad extent in only the space of a few weeks. I was abusing strangers and being impolite to random people, expecting everything on a plate, expecting to be given special SPAM, etc etc. I felt like an angry little kid not getting what he wanted from his spoiling parents if I couldn't 'cheat the system' in every walk of life.

In fact this cockiness can also make you lose out on girls. Girls, like everyone, wanna feel good, and a cocky ass guy does not necessarily provide that.

P.S. I abbreviated my name because every other fucker I meet knows about the game.

Now, I'm gonna take a shit, See ya xx


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The last few weeks I've been going all out after a relatively dormant phase. All the years of training back into action, and I've been having ridiculous amounts of success. Just too much. And this makes you fucking cocky. Success makes you really cocky. I am getting the best girls, owning all the guys, skipping club queues, not paying for public transport...just everything (lubricated by alcohol) merges into one blur of bossing the world.

I realised, a few days ago, that this made me cocky to a bad extent in only the space of a few weeks. I was abusing strangers and being impolite to random people, expecting everything on a plate, expecting to be given special SPAM, etc etc. I felt like an angry little kid not getting what he wanted from his spoiling parents if I couldn't 'cheat the system' in every walk of life.

In fact this cockiness can also make you lose out on girls. Girls, like everyone, wanna feel good, and a cocky ass guy does not necessarily provide that.

P.S. I abbreviated my name because every other fucker I meet knows about the game.

Now, I'm gonna take a shit, See ya xx
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I wouldn't mind that curse.

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Enjoy this phase in your life while it lasts.

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Life is about being humble man, whether your landing all the women, catching all the eyes and getting all the praise, you need to remain humble. Fame is just a product of success, do not let it get to your head. As fast as you climb that ladder, youll fall even faster without remaining humble. Are you truly happy being a dick to people? would you like to be treated like that? The game is not about being a dick, its about coming out of your previous situation a stronger person mentally and physically, mind body and spirit. Its alright to have a little bit of arrogance, but the biggest lesson Ive learned in life is to remain humble and treat others as you want to be treated.. karma is a bitch, been there done that.

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Its not good to burn bridges or make too many enemies.

Success makes you cocky and proud.. but it also makes the target on your ass bigger. Because success is what we all want... and people love to tear down a successful person out of jealousy.

People love you when you're down and hate you when you're up. I have always been humble with my success (even though my ego is huge I try not to show it) and even while being humble.. the hate and jealousy that comes out of the wood work is shocking.

People love and hate successful people at the same time.

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Its not good to burn bridges or make too many enemies.

Success makes you cocky and proud.. but it also makes the target on your ass bigger. Because success is what we all want... and people love to tear down a successful person out of jealousy.

People love you when you're down and hate you when you're up. I have always been humble with my success (even though my ego is huge I try not to show it) and even while being humble.. the hate and jealousy that comes out of the wood work is shocking.

People love and hate successful people at the same time.
Very well said.

And thanks for your comments all of you.

Yeah, I've found it really quite a struggle actually.

It's like, all the guys love me but secretly underneath many of them hate me and don't necessarily want to go out with me because they know if there's a girl then the girl will go for me.

And the girls...well, if you stay with them for long (as opposed to one night stands), and they're a caring/clever type, they are liable to get buyer's remorse. Although for the most part it helps to pickup girls, the end game can be more difficult.

And every now and then you take a step back and realise that you're at the center of SO MUCH shit (mostly good shit) and you just want to cave in, go home, wrap up and not have to talk to anyone for a long time...

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