Hi guys, need some advice. I've just moved to university about 2.5 weeks ago, and getting on great, pulled 2 really hot girls on my first 3 nights (although haven't actually laid anyone yet). My SPAM are fairly cool, I'm in a large flat of about 10 people. But the thing is, some SPAM have started giving me a nickname of "Mayor the player" (my surname is Mayor) because they saw the girls I picked up on the first few nights, and it's really aggravating because half of my SPAM are girls, and especially if I'm meeting new girls and they call me that it really pisses me off. Also, there's this one guy in our flat, he's a pretty cool guy I get on quite well with him, but the thing is every time we go out or there are girls around, he'll start ripping on me to try and DHV. It's really fucking pissing me off and I get that that's his way of trying to settle in and he may just see it as a bit of banter but he tends to pick on me more than anyone else with it, and mostly I can just shrug it off but eventually it gets a bit too much and starts bothering me. So what do you suggest I do? I don't really wanna fall out with him about it because I've gotta live with him for a whole year but at the end of the day I can't put up with it for much longer because eventually I'm gonna end up knocking him out and then I'll look like the twat.

Many thanks guys, much appreciated.

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mike.hunt

Anyone? There's a bit of a party tonight I'm organising and I would appreciate some advice to go to the party with so I can avoid things getting out of hand.

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mike.hunt

Talk to the guy before you go out and tell him that you really enjoy hanging out with him because he's fun, but you like to go out with guys who support each other when they're picking up girls because it makes everyone's night better, and you feel like sometimes he takes the piss too much out of you which makes your game worse and all you wanna do is have fun and support him so you can both get chicks.

As for being called a player, just take it with a cheeky grin and don't let it phase you. Trust me the girls notice and they are likely intrigued, curious and probably aroused by you. This is not a bad thing

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Cheers for the advice mate, I would give you rep but don't have enough myself so can't give

But yeah, I'll have a word with him in a few minutes I just don't want him to then use that against me and be like "mike here was getting all emotional and can't handle any banter" when we're with women. also he's not really in the mood to pickup cos he's sorta found a girl already and he doesn't know i'm into pickup per se, he just sees me with girls so he doesn't know anything about the pickup community etc.

Thanks for the player advice I'll have to remember that

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mike.hunt

Hi guys need some more advice, and this is a pretty tough one

It's about the guy who i mentioned earlier, the SPAM who's a prick to me around girls. Basically he's been seeing this girl from a couple of flats below and tonight she came over we played some cards and went on fifa and tbh had a really good night we were sorta all over each other like she was laying on me and i had my arm around her and my hand was like right on her HUGE tits and we were completely fine. I went for a kiss and she kissed me back but then when i went in again she said no but then things went back to being really flirty again and before i knew it she was laying on me again and we were having an awesome time basically we pretended it didn't happen.

Now she's dropping all these hints to me giving me so many IOIs and saying she's gonna come over tomorrow night and again but I dunno what to do this SPAM is alright i get on well with him for the most part but as i've already said he's a twat to me when we go out.

so if the opportunity arises again, should i go for it with this girl? i've just seen him a few minutes ago and he knew she was in my room and obviously heard us laughing and we were being pretty loud and he looked really pissed off and was asking lots of questions.

what to do? any advice would be appreciated.

thanks

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mike.hunt

Tell him that's what he gets for ripping on you. Remind him who the boss is, and let him know that he'll be whacking off for the next few months if he doesn't cool it.

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haha that might be a tad extreme i have gotta live with this guy for the next year but hung out with this girl again today and tbh it's on

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mike.hunt

Sounds like a question of morality more than anything. It would be "immoral" to continue on this path if you think that having sex with her is somehow "getting back" at this guy... but personally I don't see how making love has anything to do with revenge or anything like that.

If I were you I'd make sure to have an agreement with that girl to keep everything a secret just between the two of you.

As for the guy who keeps trying to get on your nerves, react with a knowing smile. Haters' gonna hate.

Yeah it is about morality. No I'm not gonna do it to get back at this guy, I'm gonna do it cos I wanna get laid and this girl's hot and cute. But I guess so yeah I wouldn't want him finding out so I'll see where it goes and keep things hush.

Plain simple advice about the guy who's getting on my nerves though I'll just play it cool.

Cheers mate

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