So I'm new to the whole PUA thing. The only thing I know about it was from reading the MM, watched quite a number of videos, and am pretty sure I understand the basics all the way from the opener to the close....so whats my problem?

Well I can't even open a girl, let alone a set. I know it's some form of AA, but it's not just that. When I think of some bullshit opener I'm going to say, I think to myself, 'god damn that sounds so phony'. Not just that, but usually when I see a group of girls, they're always talking with each other. I think to myself 'I can't just interrupt them, they'll think I'm a jerk off'.

How the fuck do I get over that? Ideally don't tell me 'just do it', but I'm afraid that's how its going to be as with anything else I've done in life.

This is day game I am trying to do here btw, but I still have the same problem when it comes to bars/clubs....

If someone could play out a real scenario that happened, that would be great.

I have plans on going out to this big ass shopping outlet tomorrow afternoon and want to at least attempt some openers.

I'm new to the game as well buddy and I have the same blocks as you do. The problem is you're just thinking way too much about it and just need to get in there, do your thing and see what happens. If the girl thinks you're a jerk off then who cares, just move on to the next one or go to another venue. At least this is what I say in my mind and by far isn't as good as other advice more experienced PUAs have.

i ve been around the pua community for a long time and ill give you a few tips to help you along the way however you may not agree or like them but they will help:

1) stop being a 'nice' guy! being a nice guy stops you getting laid, i want to define the 'nice guy' they are the sensitive type, they listen to a girls problems, they agree with everything the girl says and most importantly they are a girls friend, They dont sleep with their friends!!!!

2) stop caring!! if the girl rejects you dont take it personally i know that sounds horrid but you get rejected everyday, this is no different so dont get upset about it

3) talk to everyone!! dont just go straight for hot girls talk to everyone it boosts confidence talk to strangers at the bus stop to people you work with you dont usually talk to just start conversations!

4) there are loads of formulas on attraction the least confusing one is one of mystery's FMAC (find, meet, attract, close)

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