Well folks, quick one. When a HB says some other dude is nice, is the HB trying to make you jealous? also is that a good thing?

I'm getting mixed signals off this HB I work with. Today some dude came in and after he left the HB said to me that guy is real nice, fair enough but then the HB said it again. HB made a real point out of it. What you folks make of that?

I didnt say much really, just like yea what ever but never gave the impression I was bothered by it.

Have I been given a shit test? Should I use this now to neg / tease her or just drop it like it never happened?

when a girl talks about other guys in a positive way, she is testing you to see if you get jealous.. meaning you are negatively affected by her availability.. meaning you are weak.. meaning you are not man enough FOR HER
whether you agree with her or disagree with her- either way, do it confidently in a happy and fun-loving/ joking way
DO NOT BREAK WHEN TALKING ABOUT OTHER GUYS.. try to love them just as much as she does ie DON'T HATE

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i'm more playful, ergo i win

Nice one yea think I did alright, I more or less agreed as he was a nice guy. Defo didnt come across as jealous, as I'm not really bothered who she thinks is nice.

SO do I use this as a good neg, good way to tease her like bring it up sometime or best to forget about it?

don't tease for this.. if you spend all your time with her teasing, it looks like you're trying too hard
bust on her when she does something clumsy or says something dorky

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i'm more playful, ergo i win

I'm a jealous type myself but I have worked on not letting it show around anyone because I realized it doesn't get me anywhere. Working on a solid mindset and tuning out their voice when they're talking with another guy is something that has worked wonders for me.