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no joke here, but the key to strippers is COCAINE!! you need to make like youre a drug dealer, without actually talking about drugs. get the app on your phone that is for fake calls. get her to sit with you and your friends, and buy a round of shots. then pretend to answer a call on your phone, and sound like youre agitated, like you have your little drug peons calling and pissing you off. at this point, you can make an easy number close. you can hangup and say something came up and you have to leave, but youd like to give her a shout later to see if she is "partying". this makes it sound like you have to go deal with some hard ass business, and that you wanna meet up later and "party".
if you dont want to bail at this point, you can stay after your phone call, and try to run game on her.
you might laugh at this or think its stupid. but there is one thing 95% of strippers have in common. they love drug dealers. theyre attracted to the bad boy nonsense, and the fact that they will most likely get free blow out of it.
your other choice is to throw around a lot of money. if youre being really flamboyant and buying a lot of drinks for your friends and the waitresses. then strippers will see you as a bank. which sounds bad, but is good. when they see you like this, theyll come try to sell you dances. if you never go for a dance, then she starts to realize youre not the average chump who goes to a strip club, and that maybe she could date you and have you take care of her, since you have money to throw around. so if you can line up a date with her she will most likely fuk you, because she wants to leave a good impression on you before she is gone to another town. she doesnt want you forgetting about her.
sorry if some of this seems jumbled or out of place. its the end of my night shift, and im tired as hell.
This is horrifying. Pick up is about being your BEST SELF, about communicating effectively, about learning how to sexually escalate confidently, about learning how to be a MAN. It is not about lying to women or yourself about who your are in order to get laid.
As to the OP's question, there are a few tips that can help you.
1. Befriend the bouncers, barstaff, manager, etc. If possible you want to raise your social proof to the girls by at least seeming like you know the staff and are socially connected in some way.
2. DO NOT sit at a seat by any of the stages. The best place is a bunch of seats by a table off to one side, preferably near the bathroom. Be with a bunch of friends (female if possible) and leave a seat next to you free. This is where you want to get your target to sit.
3. DO NOT even glance at the stage or any of the performers. Be having a great time with your friends and not giving a shit about anything else.
4. Open indirectly and run normal attraction hitting all the DHVs you can. Always be talking, always be fun and interesting, and WAIT to kino until you've gotten an IOI or some compliance e.g. getting her to sit down in the chair next to you. If she tries to sit on your lap or anything like that, get her to sit on the chair.
5. Get out of "customer" frame as quickly as possible and into friends style rapport.
6. The most important thing is to get to qualification and get to HER as the person (I find this to be truer and truer about PU in general, but it's especially important here). If you can hit a couple of key points about her personality and qualify about them, then you can move into comfort and likely get a number that won't flake, or arrange an insta-date for later, or whatever.
CHAT
