hey guys, theres this one girl. she sent me iois all the time and i got her number. she has an exboyfriend whos my friend and she still has feeligns for him, in fact they have rekindled their relationship in the past 2 weeks. Shes known for being flirty with lots of guys, but she gives me this look in the hallways and stuff because she knows im trying to persue her and i dont think she gives this look out to just everyone.
So the other day, i have my arm around her and then we part ways for like a minute, and then i come up from behind her (i dont know what came over me) but i grabbed her ass..pretty aggressively. she screamed so loud. And afterwards she gave me this look that wasnt playful or smiley which worried me. but the thing is i know she likes me, even if its just a little bit. so how do act now. oh and her ex boyfriend whos rekindling the flames, came up to me and told me not to grab her ass. so she obviously told him and i was wondering what this meant.

SHIT! Okay, first her ex-BF is a friend of yours, she's flirty with a lot of guys and you think your different, then you grabbed her ass and she "SCREAMED" then she told her boyfriend.



dude, yer not a special snow flake, move on

don't game your friends girls/ex-girls without there permission you don't want to be that guy, it'll come back as a massive DLV in yer social circle, next some hot girls will shoot flirty looks and drop IOI's because it make them feel special, when you meet a girl like that, if she is interested, she will chase you when you push her away.


Honestly, chalk it up as a learning experience and move on. it's gonna be way more trouble than it's worth.

Good luck brother.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

I dont know man, she definately has interest in me. Shes flirty with guys, but i know im different.

I agree with you, you're definitely different. An an average to below average PUA wouldn't play the role of a drunk sailor smacking the ass of his target chick as if she was the popular local hooker.

chill out.

wheni got her #, she said that she would date me. thats enough fukin validation to me.

You don't need to listen to kasabi because he's pretty ridiculous most of the time.

She actually screamed, in public? Was it embarrassing?

That kind of thing is really nothing to scream about. I guess it just took her by surprise that you'd be so confident as to do that. Not sure if it hurt or helped your chances. Depends how you reacted. If you were apologizing and making some kind of upset face it would have hurt your chances.

Yet if you brushed it off as if it was nothing or kind of smirked at her for overreacting (or just straight up ignored it) then persisted with more touching, you'd of been fine.

thanks man. yea, i played it off with a smirk. it wasnt like a rapist scream but it was a surprised scream. took me off gaurd a lil too. but what concerns me is that she told her ex bf, my friend. and how i should continue persuing her

I think kasabi has a point, so I will say this, please listen...


1.) If you game your friends girl/ex-girl (that he is in the proses of getting back together with) this will lower your value in your social circle. there are a million hot girls out there, why would you snit where you eat.

2.) She screamed even just a little is a bad thing

3.) She told Him that is not only the biggest IOD you could get but a massive DLV.

Nothing about these are inaccurate this is what has happened and what will happen, this is just how interpersonal relationships work, don't let your emotions cloud your judgment.

We all Fock up sometimes, live and learn, I recommend preserving your social value and move on[/b]

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

This would make a great SNL short vid:

"Smack her in the ass!"

She gave me her number, she told me she wanted to go out.
She's flirty with other guys but she's into me for sure no doubt.
Yeah, I could take her out but you I know that I'm different . . .
Just smack her in the ass! Fucking Smack her in the ass!

Yo Dunkin Donut girl. "Yeah you know me."
Yo Give me a Regular iced and make it a Boston Kreme.
"That'll be 3.99" I could give her my dough but you know that I'm different . . .
Just smack her in the ass! Fucking smack her in the ass!

Yo foxy teach, word up? "You gotta another D- you lazy clown!"
Why you play me like that. You know that I'm down.
"You got yourself detention". I ain't playin' that cause' you know I'm different . . .
Just smack her in the ass! Fucking smack her in the ass!

So my girly's boy is down on me. He say, "why you smack my girly's ass?"
He better smarten up cause I'm gonna school him in pick up class.
You know that I'm different. You know that I'm different . . .
So I Smacked him in the ass! Fucking smacked him in the ass!

Why y'all frontin'? Why y'all narc'in'?
I'm a playa, pickin' up and ass smackin' . . . I ain't stickin' my finger in.
You know that I'm different but you're all, "Stop your fuckin' ass smackin'"
But you know I don't know what that means?

(This is when Tebu would enter the video with his rendition of "Brush it Off".)

Begin with:

"Was it embarrassing? . . Was it embarrassing?"
Brush it off! Brush it off!
Do it again! Do it again!

You just made my year.

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~California Love~!

lool asshole

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

'You say she flirts with A LOT of guys
what makes you think you should even try

You got her number.....piece of cake?
Brother you should call it, it could be a fake

Now grabbing ass...sht that isn't Game
Thats not even kino, are you insane?

A 'look' she gives you....is that all you need ?
Then your game needs fixing in order to succeed

You know you've got oneitis right?
find other women, they come out at night

Hitting up a friend's girl, thats pathetic and lame
You risk friendship over a girl, you should be ashamed.

Peace out!

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