I'm very excited about this, I've been thinking all day about logging in here and telling you guys cuz I've finally started taking some steps towards becoming a PUA

My friend introduced me to the game about one year ago. I've never really felt I NEEDED the game, I've had my share of sex like any regular guy and I've had 6-7s as girlfriends etc. I did WANT to learn the game though. At that time, I was too depressed and lazy, drinking too much alcohol etc so I never got around to start practising or studying.

Now, earlier this summer I was hanging out with my friends and one of them were reading this book... This book that I had heard about many times... That I had always wanted to read, but never went to get it in a library or bookstore... Guess which one?
The Game.
One week later (I was working in a kitchen morning-night and talking on the phone with my girlfriend 3h/night at the time, otherwise it would've been more like two or three days) I had finished it. And I was very excited. I wanted to go to bars, I wanted to go sarging. But I was working in the kitchen for a couple more weeks, so I never got around to it. And I had my girlfriend, so I didn't need to go gaming for sex.


A few weeks ago I was at my job, and this day I was going to start up a small group of teenage girls: they were going to make a magazine together. In my mind I had totally planned how it was going to happend, I knew what to do and had it under control. Then came the girls. 13 years old. Almost 10 years younger than me. But hot girls, you know like girls that will probably look the same - but grown up - in five years, girls that dress hot and behave like they could just get you to fuck them right there and then, but girls that were 13. Girls with an attitude. I tried to get them to listen "Hey, we're gonna start this thing..." "No, the grown-ups aren't here yet so we're not doing that!" "..." My fear of being rejected started to kick in. The fear that had been building up since I was 14 and started looking at girls. Whoa, what do I do now? I didn't manage to gather the courage to tell them anything, all I could do was imagine the shame I'd have to go through if they said "No!". A simple no, probably my worst fear.

So I've been talking to my psychologist about this and that didn't help much, and I haven't really seen a solution to this. But then a few days ago I was thinking of The Game, and remembering all the texts from Mystery's Lounge. I figured that forum wouldn't be up anymore, but there has to be more. So I googled pick-up artist forum, and guess where I ended up. And after reading just a little bit, finding a few online seminars etc, I realized something. This is going to help me. THIS is what I need! I NEED the game. This is the perfect way for me to get better self confidence, and to get rid of my fear of rejecting. At the same time, I'll get some insurance for myself so I don't have to go without sex if me and my gf break up

Earlier today I was listening to How to Bullet-Proof your Inner Game by Matt H. He said it's easy to feel a very strong self confidence when coming from these seminars, but you could lose it just as quick - just through a phone call from your mom or anyone else. He said that I should go out and do something, while I still have this self confidence, that shows me that I've changed. So I decided to do so. But how easy is that to say to yourself, and how easy is it to actually do so?



Anyways, by lunchtime today I was going to the tram stop seeing many girls walk by me, noone even a good 7. I thought "I can talk to girls - no problems. It's the hot ones that's my problem! When I see a hot chick, that's the one I'll open!"

I arrived at the tram station. Guess what I saw? A fucking super chick, just standing there with here iPod listening to music. "Whoooooaaaa this is the girl! But wait.. She wont hear me with those earphones. I'll make a fool of myself. Here comes a tram, it's probably hers. Nope it's not, so I still got time. Three seconds passed looooong ago - will I make this? My tram will be here in two minutes, if I go and open her, I wont even have time to listen to her answer before getting on my tram. Wait, I'm not in a rush. I'll just take the next tram... But do I dare? JUST FUCKING DO IT!" And so I did it. I walked up to the girl.
- Hi!
*Girl doesn't hear me, looking another way.*
*I walk up more in front of her.*
- Hi! Could you help me with something?
*Girl smiles a bit nervously/uncomfortably*
- Uh, what's that?
- Well, my girlfriend's birthday is coming up and I need a present for her... Bla bla bla.

It worked! She smiled at me! She gave me great tips! It was wonderful! I had walked up to and opened a realllyyy hot chick! A very safe opening, but whatever! WHOOOO!

During the next half hour, I had encountered and opened a set of two 8s and later a 6.5 in the tram just cuz I thought about it and was about to chicken out


This is my start, from here on I'll just move forward. Today, Salza was born



I must that all you PUAs for keeping this forum and the game alive - for all of us guys that NEED it.

Thanks for reading, if you got this far down


Oh, and to any people in Sweden, Göteborg or around: I'd love to meet up for some sarging Send me a PM!