Nyseto, I don't know how much you know about relationships, but freezing out a GF is trying to ignore problems. A healthy relationship, if you actually care about the girl, would be to talk to her. You need to discuss the past to have a better future, he isn't trying to pick her up, he said she is his GF. Same applies to shit tests; there shouldn't be any shit tests regarding who messages when unless the relationship is REALLY new... So as I said best advice would be to talk about your problems and in the future post in the relationship section if it really is one and you don't want to get ridiculous suggestions...

Relationship is like 2 weeks new. Basically, ever since that night, it went from her txting me every day "Good morning babe".. with little chats in the midst of the day, then we'd say goodnight... to her little resopnses, "hey what u doing". I talked to her about it, told her that she has been acting weird since that incident, n she first responded, "Babe I wanna see u". Then a lil bit later, "I've been busy. You take forever to talk, so I don't even bother". That last txt is bullshit lol. I told her that she has been acting strange since the incident. But yeah, I'm not apologizing for ish. I told her that she's been, "acting weird ever since an elderly gentlemen was trying to ask u for directions" lol (which was the incident, that supposedly some old guy was following her). Well see how she responds. I'm not collapsing under any of her shit tests.

EDIT: So she assuring me that she's been really busy. I'm sure that incident has some to do with it though. And with the freeze out, I do it as a punishment, but when it's unexpected...? So lets say she calls me some name that offends me, do I play it off, make things feel right again, then freeze her out? And lets say I do a 2-3 day freeze out, then we start talking like normal again. What do I say when she asks, "why have you not been talking to me lately." Do I make it obvious and say because of the name u called me?

You guys are retarded. Freeze out is not the right way to handle this. The correct way of handling this would've been saying "Hey, I know it's scary getting followed and it sucks that I wasn't there for you, but I can't be there for you 24/7. I'm going to be busy sometimes or not check my phone, but when I can be there for you I will".

No freezeout needed, adress HER issue in a calmly fashion while staying "alpha". GIRLS LOVE TO FEEL SECURE, you're not going to make her feel secure if you just freeze her out. By freezing her out, you are just creating more problems down the road for your relationship.

Anyways, it's too late now, but if it ever comes up again I would just say something along the lines of that.

And all the guys that are saying "Oh stay alpha ur creating attraction". Sorry, but there's a reason why they are in a RELATIONSHIP because the attraction is VERY HIGH. In a New relationship attaction is easily come by and wont just go away because he wanted to show that HE CARES.

Wtf, I'm so confused now lol. But I explained to her, something like this, "In a situation like that, you call the cops. Blablabla" N she responded, "No, blablabla". The next morning I responded back to her and said, "I hope you were over reacting, and not being followed around, cuz that shit pisses me off. I don't want some creeper fantasizing about my girl. Give me his plates lol." She completely ignored it, and txtd me 8 hours later. Maybe it was a shit test for me to kiss ass to her...?

naw dude she just wanted to see if you cared enough to look out for you.

When girls shit test you in a relationship it means they are still screening you if you are boyfriend material. Shit test failed bro.

oh and i wouldnt text back either if i thought the other person didnt really give a shit about me.