After months off going out getting rejected, failing shit tests, getting blown out and told to fuck off or get beat up. I have finally started getting continual results most nights and being able to build enough attraction for a 1st date.

After going on about 4 dates in 2 weeks, i am stuck on what too do :S.

The usual pattern of how my dates go are i'll drive (making sure my car is super clean). Pick them up go to a pub for a drink, then head to the cinema, then drop them back at their house.

I have so many problems with this pattern that it needs to change :S. Thoughts and suggestions on each problem are welcome!

1) If i didnt kiss close when i first met them should i hug them when i pick them up?

2) By going to the pub i can get stuck on what to say as it can be a couple of hours, should i restrict the time in the pub?

3) In the cinema if theres a handrest in between us, should i put my arm around her or is this cheesy?

4) What other places are gd to take people? I'm starting to think an activity would be better, the only problem with this is if im going on alot of dates this can get pricy? Any cheap ideas??

5) Awkwardness at the end off the night when the other persons getting out the car, should you always go for a hug if you dont believe you they are ready for the kiss?

6) Should i text them when im outside their house or walk up and knock on their door? The reason for this is alot off my dates still live at home.

Text Game

After the initial meeting how much should you text them before meeting up for the 1st date? My problem with this comes down to if i text them too much i can potentially run out of material whilst on the date.

Any thoughts or suggestions would be really welcome!

your mindset is a bit/all/ SUPER fucked up haha
you are the man in your relationships, rite? lol but we're all a lil AFC
if you want to put your arm around a woman, you do it
you dont hesitate, you dont say please, you put your arm around her and pull her into your body and look at her as if you've just given her the greatest present known to woman.. your sexual interest
but ideally, you won't do this cuz who fucking does it that isn't married? haha

your paradigm shift: i have the penis.. and i am SO HAPPY to give you a chance to impress me and give me a reason to give you this dick

you are not hooked until you are getting intimate/fucking
when you touch her, she should secretly jump up and down inside that you really might like her

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i'm more playful, ergo i win

Hey man!!!


Man, you are going by the right way, having some datings mean that you are improving your game.

But yeah I have to say it. You are acting really like a AFC. You have to improve your game. Girls want to be leadered!!!!, girls want someone with balls!!!

First, You have to improve your game from the beagining, from the day you meet them!!!, so your second date its easier. They should know that you are the man and you are TOUCHY.... I think here is the main problem!!!! you dont know how to touch and how to escalate.


Okay, if you didnt kclose.
Ofcourse you have to hug her in second date or at least a kiss in her cheek. The problem comes that maybe you didn´t escalate enough when you first met.

You can do this. approch her and distrct her mind by saying " Damn the traffic its crazy!!!! a 80 years old man was infront of me ......." (and just hug her while u still delivering the line, you can adsd more in that line depends on the situation)

If she rejet u or get angry... fuck her!!! she is not for you you dont need to waist your time with her anyways!!!!

Yes, you have to restrict you hours in the pub!!! from the begining you sould say to her that you need to do some shit later or next day you have a meeting really early or what ever. This will show that you are a occupied person and you have the possibility, if you run out of things to say or things are not really going well, to throw it later on
But if you are doing well, Im sure you will =) dont need to remember it to her. (Is like the "I gotta get back with my friends but")

Yeah thats fucking cheesy!!!, I recomend you a quick hug before she says something (what ever, dont need to be funny) and throw something like "oh you are so adorable" or " ohhh this deserve a hug for you" or ohhh thats so scary, don´t worry I will protect u" (and hug) ( in a funny way NOT CHESSY)

If there is a handrest lift it (if it is possible) from the begining, before sitting so she will not notice it and look akwards if u do it later...

Again, you need to start touching from the begining "look for micro escalation in the internet"... Use any pretext to touch her hand!!! "oh that ring in your finger its cool why do u have it in that finger in especific.... you know that....." there are too many things
Yeah, this is the price of dating, but you really dont have to go to expensive places. Maybe go to park donno maybe "climb trees and drink cool aid".... =)




If you did a good game, the hug will be given by her... Fuck you should be making out for that time!!!!!
Dont try to escalte or kiss if you even didnt touch her before.

By the end of the day you should be at least be so close that if someone see you they could say you are couple...

Ofcourse you even can have sex with her if u do a good game.... but first start to improve your game... the key her is CREATE TENSION AND BUILD TEMPERATURE.... and more practice


I Call them... but dont worry about to much in that.... Fuck mate be an ALFA


And finally dont text them too much!!!!




Okay, you are doing okay but you need some more reading!!!!


hope you understand my shitty english


cheers

Notneedy