Hi, I am on exchange in Sweden right now from Canada. I have been hanging out with a lot of girls and friends but I have found that I haven't been able to sleep with anyone here yet and its been a month. I was trying to sleep with one girl, where I even slept in the same bed with her but didn't get anything. I then took tips from this forum to be more aggressive, and last weekend was at the club grinding hard with her and tried to kiss her multiple times but she would pull away saying she has a bf. This weekend there are going to be three separate parties on three different nights, and there will prob be about 20 of the same girls at the parties, prob of which 10 are single. So would you guys suggest focusing on 1 girl or flirt with all of them? There are two girls I am really interested in. The first girl b4 I thought about getting with her came back to my place one night about 3 weeks ago to help me find my friends wallet then ended up staying and talking for 45 minutes before leaving. The other girl will always come to the same social events as me and we talk casually. So I have two questions: Should I focus in on both or 1 of these ladies or should I flirt with all the girls at the party? Secondly how do I go about doing this?
Thanks guys!

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Flirt everybody man, open yourself as many doors as you can. And better yet, you get yourself as much social proof as you can. Get all the girls around you, WALK with girls on both of your sides, the other girl who said she has a bf will see you as high value. And her having a bf is probably a lie...or else she wouldn't be there grinding "hard" like you said. She basically blew you off. If she would have said that to me, "I would have gotten closer to her, put my finger on my lips be like shhh, you smell good, I want to give you this kiss but you'll come with with another excuse" and then quickly moved back away from her to show indifference.


And don't brag or try to impress anyone there. Even if they ask you complimenting questions, don't give them a straight answer.

And to get a girl to come with you, grab her by the hand and start walking and say, "Come to my place, it's pretty interesting." By that you're basically pushing your chances to the max of not being rejected and you're not bragging about your place, but making her "wonder"...

Okay thanks man. Ill try it out. Another question about that, I share a room with someone, and if he is there I should try to go to the girls place, how would u suggest doing that? And do u think its good to be pretty tipsy while being at these parties? Ill let you know how it goes!

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Dont get drunk or tipsy, remain in control and girls will notice this.