Well it hs happened to me. I have fallen for a girl that not only has the looks but one hell of a personality. I do not understand. ONe day it hit me! I really like this girl, and I have fallen head over heels for her. I think to myself all the time, how can I make this work, how can I get out of my head, and not be nervous around her. I have even just contiplated maybe I should tell her how I feel face to face.

THough I do like this girl, I have had problems hanging out with he, ecspecially this weekend. We were supposed to chill a few nights ago, but I told her I was going to a party. SHe asked for the the address, and then never responed back. I wanted to hang with her yesterday, but she said she is going to a party instead, and she can't.

I remember we were hangning out one day, and she asked me if I have thought about having a girlfriend, and at the time I was not. I told her I am not that kinda of man, I love to play around. She thought it was funny, and she llied on the ground and just stood up at the sky. It didn't hit me then, but I think she inderectley was saying she likes me.

When we do hang out, we talk for hours, and we make each other laugh, it is perfect, but when I am not with her, and I call her I feel all the chemistry is gone. SHe never calls me though. Like, I calle dher yesterday, and she was sleeping but she picked up the phone, we talked and she was out of it, she said" I gonna go I will talk to ya later." Then later that day, she sent me a text syaing Im sry im sry, I am up now. I do not know what to do I am lost in this girl. I am thinking about just deleting her number, and forget about her. Is it worth the mental effort? \

I just don't know how to game around this girl

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Don't let routines, and fake feelings be a shell surrounding your true self. It will only break, and you will be left at step 1

step one. chill.

step two. leave, like dont call her/go over to her = let her call you/ come over to you etc.

step three. flirt with other chicks in front of her

step four. find something that you absolutely cannot stand about her, even if it petty, like you dont like the shape of her foot/ the way she sits etc. and visualise that everytime you think she's perfect.

step 5. game other girls, in front of her and see how she responds.

step 6. use the principles of economics = get another (preferably popular) girl to be your gf,

step 7. see how she responds, if she likes you, go forth and tap that.

I know some of the stuff above sounds cold and all mind games, but seriously, who cares?

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I once heard this in relation to getting over an ex, but it applies here too and I've used it in the past: the next time you're talking to her and rainbows sprout on the horizon and butterflies flutter about and birds sing a song of untainted beauty, just imagine her taking a the biggest dump of her life. I'm talking hold the sides of the toilet because you're afraid the kickback is going to blow you off level of deuce dropping. As you imagine the veins popping out of her head and sweat dripping while she looks desperately at the way too little amount of toilet paper at hand, she won't seem so wonderful anymore. Do this in concert with what Talmortinc said above me and you should pull through this.

Just remember that all the Sirens will do is lure you into a shipwreck.

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Only one thing could cure this: Dance Music.

I actually told this chick how I feel it was terrible. I am notgoing to go into it, because I told it like 500 times, but yea she got startled and then rejected me. I even grabbed her too me and asked her if she wants to kiss me. It waaass baaad. So now I am back at step one with her surprisingly. I failed so bad I thought she would just never talk to me.

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Don't let routines, and fake feelings be a shell surrounding your true self. It will only break, and you will be left at step 1

Sorry to be harsh, but you literally did everything against what everyone here told you.

surely, you should know that telling a girl that you love her is never, ever the best thing to do unless you never want to her to be with you.

now give up this girl and mooooooove the fuck on.
go tap 10 other girls and see how you feel.

now, if you actually want to become better at the game:

flirt with other girls, pretend you dont care in front of her/when you see her around.
have fun, dont mope over her
dont write her letters n shit, just completely ignore her.


goooood luck.

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