I was messaging a girl on Blackberry messenger and she got talking about a lad who sent her a PM on facebook. It said that he thought she was beautiful pretty and would really like to meet her. She thought it was creepy and told me about it. It turns out that I know this lad and Im seeing him tomorrow. This is how it went:

Me: Haha, Im seeing him tomorrow!
Her: Oh God! :L
Me: Do I tell him your interested?
Her: Tell him to fuck off, wierdo and that Im yours! :p
Me: Ok. Ill tell him to stay away from my woman! ;p

Since then she hasnt messaged back. I think I might of shown too much interest when she made that last comment and that was what she's looking for. Any thoughts? Whats should I do now?

Bro, you shouldve done a role reversal. Shouldve said something like "Are you always this forward?" or "Are you always this clingy" or something to make it seem like she has to qualify for you like "We're just friends, youll have to work harder than that to be my woman"

Her: Tell him to fuck off, wierdo and that Im yours! :p

Me: I'm going to tell him that you are madly in love with him and want to bare his children.

or

Me: You are a big girl, I'm sure you can handle it yourself.


She was expecting you to reply the way you did, which puts you in the predictable category, which equals no attraction. It's always better to be a little challenging and catch her off guard. Don't be like most guys and jump to a girls rescure whenever she plays the 'damsel in distress' card.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Don't bail her out. That's one of the things I agree with in the anti-manifesto. You didn't challenge her at all, you just validated that she is wanted by 2 people (you sort of implicated yourself).

I might have said "Yeah I'll tell him he can do better." Anything but what you said. You may have friendzoned yourself with that if you weren't before.

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The best PUA advice is also the best fighting advice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ijCSu87 ... rn-1r-4-HM

"Yeah I'll tell him he can do better."

Nice!

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Agreed! Nice!