How to defeat your Approach Anxiety FOREVER.



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:25 pm 
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Some questions/doubts.

1. I could easily see the "hot girl tag" making the guy come off as a creep. When you execute this "hot girl tag" stuff, how do you avoid coming off as a creep that's just looking for pathetic excuses to touch women? Because to me that's exactly what it seems like. I can totally imagine myself doing this to a hot girl. And she's going to frown in disgust with a "get away from me" face, and it's NOT because I had low confidence or imagined this scenario going down badly or am not smiling enough; it's because I don't happen to be 7 feet tall with a Tom Cruise face, and neither are most guys.

2. How do you follow up with the plane/train babes? I mean, there's a good chance you live pretty far from each other. Is that one meeting really going to prompt her to want to travel 30+ miles to go on some dates and have sexy time with you? That seems a bit optimistic.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 1:52 pm 
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Man relax.
1) Yes some girls may look at you as a dork. But some of them will be into the fun:D
2) You don't have to move on with them it's just about having fun:D You might get lucky on the train once in a while to meet one near you. And don't tell me when you go to the shop at the next corner those HBs most likely live far from you ;)

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good post mate, there is definitely a confidence boost to all of us.

however i do agree with Maxloh, about the 'hot-girl-tag' - telling her she is super hot, just boost her ego, and probably lowers ur chances. And the touching game - i mean just imagine urself walking and there is a HB in front of ya, and you catch up to her and grab her hand... in some states u'd get an assault charge, or a attempt to rape charge ... haha..

I wouldnt advise anyone on doing that - unless its perhaps in a club - i can see that maybe working in a club as the girls are there to have fun, and would perceive it immediately as your funny way of approaching them...

...but on the street... no way dude, i woulndt dare do that, unless i was making a funny video for youtube.

100% agree with the 'never stop sarging' - and i think by gaining enough material from here and from life experiences the transition will be inevitable, you will become that 'PUA' and bust a move on anything that walks.

Good luck fellas....

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SashaPUA, you are on point with your post.


It can all be summed up in Nike's famous slogan: JUST DO IT!


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Hot girl tag XD Can't wait to try this, just to see the reactions.

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Whoa!! Holy replies!

Been busy slavin' away so been away from dis' forum......

Right, everyone seems obsessed with the fucking hot girl tag.

That was just an example of some fun shit you can do... it's not about the game itself. You can make up any dumb ass reason to talk to a girl - as long as you go and TALK to her.

As per running up to a girl and touching her and being charged with assault - PaLEASE! I've done 1000's of approaches. 1000's. I have never had a problem. Ever. Couple of weeks ago I was attacked by a madwoman, and my opener was "Hello" .... but other than that the worst reaction was girls

1) saying they have a boyfriend

2) walking away

3) giving you a dirty look and walking away

WHO GIVES A FUCK

Most girls however are just happy to have a fuckin conversation that isn't BORING AS FUCK. Whether you're fun, direct, or just goofy - they like it.

Here's another thing I'd added to more recent versions of this article:

3) Tell her: Another great game to play is one called “tell her.” Whenever you’re with a friend, if one of you says anything about any woman – and you’re friend says “ “tell her” you HAVE to go and tell the woman exactly what you just said. You can even explain to women the game that you’re playing – they don’t mind! Mix this in with punching your friend every time you spot a cute girl and this will equal meeting a LOT of new people!


If you're worried about what women / people think you're going to have a fucking boring ass limited life. Go and blow your head off right now, because you're already dead.

Anyone who's worried about that shit, go listen to some David X, it might help!

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 5:51 pm 
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This is the cure for “I don’t have an opener.” Every time u see a girl, you touch her. Period. Believe me – you start doing this, things will start coming out of your mouth!
I absolutely love, and agree with this statement. I dont agree with the "tag" part... as most people have taken WAY to literally... but...

Touch her... Period. You will definately have some explaining to do. With time... it will get easier, and your "explainations" will get better.


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Loving the Hot girl tag idea. Absolute gold man. I cant wait to try it and put my own spin on it. I really like the concept of not setting aside a "sarging time". If you are doing it all the time, it just becomes a part of who you are. It just becomes lifestyle after a while.

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I just realized that people aren't bad. Women aren't bitches and unfriendly unless you make them that way with your bullshit. After I truly realized that I prove it to myself and that was it.

After that I even forgot how anxiety feels like. I don't really care anymore if some girls rejects me. When that happens I just know that it's her loss. And since I started thinking this way there was no girl that blew me off for the last 1 and a half years. Some said that they were taken but they still talked to me and they were nice. Some just weren't in the mood for talking to strangers but they still did talk to me.

But to sum it up I haven't been rejected badly in a long time because of the way I look at things now.

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