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i think these responses are too robotic..
I agree with flat out saying no, but just in a playful context so she dont feel blown out, just teased.
you need to tease her,
all these "you would look better like this blah blah" are bad negs cuz their not really engaging just a shot to her ego.
I disagree with your disagreement to what I said
What I said is being playful if used in a playfull tone. You can say just about anything you want as long as you get the body language and tone right.
And what I'm saying is not a neg or shot at her ego. According to op, he already has this girl in the comfort zone so its just breaking rapport a little bit and again, being playful.
Saying yes or no, how boring and un playfull. You want to break her ego, then go ahead and say no or be a dick about it.
Plus, by giving a double sided comment as I mentioned, lets her know you think she is cute, but not 100% perfect for you which in turn gives her a bit of a challenge since she knows she doesn't 100% have you. She will try to prove to you otherwise.
no offense, but some of you guys around here need to expand your horizons a bit.
Oh and btw, what I said had been field tested with like 100% success.