Why are so many kids asking for advice on some dopey puppy love or crush? Why not write to Teen Magazine or Reader's Digest? And why does anybody need advice for some girl they are forced to see over, over, and over again at school, church, or work? You can tell her to go fuck herself and she'd still have to see you again, again, and again. You could tell her to go fuck her self over, over, and over again and she'd still show up next day to work, school, church or wherever. After three years of this, you could still fuck her with about a week of game.

I can understand little girls being fixated on Walt Disney movie crap but when guys do this, I get an urge to puke and defecate at the same time. Guys . . . just as a reminder . . . they market that crap to 12 year old girls . . .

When you've been focusing on busting down limiting beliefs for awhile, the perspective of the typical young man can seem like complete nonsense. That said, it's not surprising that Disney movies and the like form the foundation of how many people understand human relationships.

Popular culture raises our children more faithfully than their parents, at least in terms of time spent and consistency in the message. When a guy thinks that by pining for a girl, obsessing about her, and eventually mocking himself in some ludicrous public display of intent (Ten things I hate about you, She's all that, any fucking rom-com made ever) that the girl's panties will soak and her heart will soar for him and only him; he's emulating all he's learned on the subject. He's trying to create that big moment where he finally shows how he feels, when the happy music starts and the credits roll. He doesn't know any better.

Lengthy oneitis stories piss me off too, but mostly because I feel frustration with the situation these young men find themselves in, generally through no real fault of their own. Boys are not taught the skills of manhood, fuck they barely learn how to be slaves to the economy.

said perfectly. yes these post about want my ex back, like this girl but idk. she is my friend but I like her etc etc seem so repetitive.
What should be done on the forum is a group of stickies that say what to do in these typical situation bc they are all so generic.
Hopefully we can snag a few of these guys into real pickup instead of the oneitis bullshit that they think is bliss

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When i joined this forum the other day i was looking at that too and was like WTF? I almost started to think this was a group therapy session, but the more i read on the more i found the better threads, and am now quite happy i joined up. I understand i am still new here, but I already like it.

In the few days I have been here my confidence has gone up a peg or two so thanks to all the real PUAs here. Trust me i'm not here for advice on some girl who ran away. FUCK THAT GIRL, because there are going to be 15 more lined up once I'm done!

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nice to see another guy whos real for the real shit not for some bs problem. I like it. yea the general questions forum are the most flooded, some ppl stay away from this subforum cuz its filled with bs

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I think killing one-itis is a pre-requisite for being a PUA. Fuck that shit fuck that girl there are 3 billion more.

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yea.. I didnt learn shit about picking up women from my father.. and I was an only child..

My father was 21 and my mother 19.. when they got married.. my father was just out of the army at that time too.. so.. he didnt even have the chance to game.. they stayed married till he passed away.. 42 years.. so.. thats what I was raised with..

nothin on how to pick them up.. or make them like me.. I was the friendzone kid.. I was the one who obsessed over one girl all year in HS and didnt get her..
I wasnt a bad lookin kid.. but I was a Geek.. I looked younger than my age.. and at the time.. I was short.. at age 22.. I finally slept with my 3rd girl.. all of which were gf's.. I had kissed a number of girls.. but.. I had no game.. at all.. the girls I did sleep with were pretty.. but.. they kinda went for shy guys.. so.. they kinda got me..
not me getting them.. At age 23.. I decided I needed change.. so.. I changed my attitude and confidence.. I decided I didnt care anymore what people thought of me.. and the fear of rejection significantly became less..
since I still had no mentor or method.. I did trial and error.. to get over my confidence issues.. what I did do.. was.. give a girl a genuine compliment on something I liked about her.. didnt really know what else to say.. so.. I would just say I'd talk to them later.. or whatever..

It did have a very positive result.. they started seeing me as the guy who wasnt just tryin to use some cheesy line and try to fck them.. and I started to get to know alot of girls.. and my number started to go up and up and up.. then I started getting my own style of approach.. I stayed single for 3 years because I was having so much fun..
The other things I was doing at the same time was.. learning how to dance with rythm.. also.. when I was with a girl sexually.. Id get to know what she liked.. if she liked somethin specific.. Id get her to let me practice on her.. women love when you take the time to learn about them..

I didnt have one night stands.. because it never was just one night.. I found general things that most of the girls liked.. and worked that first.. and would learn more as i went.. if you sleep with a girl which would normally be a one night stand.. and you do it right... she will want it again..

and if by chance you are done sooner than you would plan.. which at times it does happen.. you dont leave her hangin.. without skippin a beat move on to doin somethin else to her.. like going down or using your hand..

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Not that I like those posts, coming from those AFCs, declaring they want their ex back, are desperatly in love with someone in their class, having seen the light that she is perfect and special ... but who don't know if they have any chance.

But still, why is this forum found? Because we want to help people learn pick up and learn about girls. Many didn't have the luck of being warmly raised by their parents who kept them as prisoners at home. Remember it's nature-nurture, for some things we are born to be, for some things we are raised to be.

And as much as Style, Mystery, AFC Adam, Gambler, ... were AFC before they got of college, we have to give the chance to other people to get out of their AFCness and to grow in PU.

So, instead of shitting on those AFCs and break their low selfesteem even more, remember where those mPUAs once were, remember where maybe you once were, and try to help those guys or make clear stickies in the general question sections where those guys can look for problems about oneitis and AFCness, and how to get over it.

I already made a big topic about curing oneitis. Here is the link: big-topic-about-curing-oneitis-vt74280.html?highlight= . It's not that I want to market my thread, but I seriously want to help people curing oneitis. Putting this thread in a sticky in general questions, can create one big thread about people with oneitises, and reduces the number of "trying to get my ex back/ I have oneitis help please..." threads in general questions.

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hence my post

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Someone get chief in here so he can start building some stickies in the general questions area for the various forms of oneitis

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I don't like the age demographic here. This directly correlates with this kind of bullshit. I game alot and I rarely do it on someone I'll ever see again in my life. I'm 31 and have lived in 5 major cities in my adulthood. When I start seeing the same girls around, I move. Rarely do you get a second chance to make a good first impression when you game as hard as I do. I don't walk away without a kiss, phone number or fuck until I have relentlessly badgered a woman. LOL. If I don't get either of those 3 things from her the first time I meet her and she runs into me again, she's gonna know exactly what my intentions are and know that I've been doing that the whole time with every other girl since I met her! At that point, my sex appeal reeks like a male whore and I don't stand a chance at a second go-around.

Im 33.. I dont see a need to move.. with what I do.. it just works.. after I sleep with a girl a few times.. I am usually friends with them still and they usually get me hooked up with other girls..
after I game a girl.. alot of times.. i tell her exactly how I did it.. and why it will still work on her.. and have fun with it... alot of times.. i get told.. oooh that is so not fair.. or.. you suck..
I simply laugh..

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

bump

Is that where guys are supposed to learn this sh*t? The only thing my father taught me was why I didn't want to become an alcoholic.

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I agree with alot of posts on here. Hell, a few times I was even one of the guys that this thread knocks on. I just think that comes with the territory though.

I think alot of people that haven't had immediate success with women have an extremely harder time to become a Dictionary Definition of a "Pick-Up Artist" because if you go from having little to no interaction with women to having a girl in your life, thats a recipe for one-itis, and I think thats where alot of these guys are in their lives. Not that they CANT learn, they just aren't at that stage yet.

Like if you were locked in a room for five days without food or water. After the fifth day, I walk in and give you a tray with one cracker and a glass of water. You're gonna tear the shit up out of that food, right? It's just a plain cracker with a simple glass of water, yet you've blown it out of proportion and ate the hell out of it because you simply haven't had anything like it in so long and it sustains you.

Thats why I personally like helping people when they come to these boards with all kinda of problems because back when I was really in need and didnt have anyone to ask, I DIDNT have these boards to run to because I didnt know they even existed. It made me feel alone alot of times.

With the knowledge that I've accrued, I like helping people when I can with a wide variety of issues, yet I dont have any problem tell a guy when he needs to let go or move on. There's a bigger picture than just picking up women or being in a relationship, and we all have to figure it out ourselves. But it's nice when you can turn to, even a simple message board, and get honest opinions and suggestions without judgement. That really helps people find their way.

If someone wants to ask me how to approach or where they get stuck along mid-game, more than happy to help. If someone wants to know how to keep the spark going in a dying relationship, I'll give my honest opinions on the matter. I come to these boards to try and help people in need the way that I would like to be helped if I had an issue.