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PostPosted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:17 pm 
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Ok so today i met a girl today as i was walking to my afternoon lecture and approached her to ask if she was in my class as i had seen her before. We walked to the lecture and i was giving her some kino but not many negs. After that we then went shopping and she was selecting food for me and such and asking me what i want to do after the course etc. Then after i did my shopping she told me she had a boyfriend and it was serious because she has been going out for 2.5 years BUT she said she cant do long term relationships and that she only sees him once a month THEN she asks me if im single as a pringle lol and so i say yes.
After that i went back to my accommodation and i told her to give me her number and that i would speak to her soon.
That was all after 2 hours!
So come on guys what were all those signals she was giving me.
Is there a good chance of her leaving her boyfriend for me!?
How can i progress this further?


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I wouldnt say she's screening for BF material.

If she does,you're responsible for setting the boyfriend frame.

What is it you're looking for from this chicc?

What she's doing is that she realizes that she's in a relationship at a point in life where she really wants to be free.

She most likely got with the current bf just to fill her insecurities-or just to say that she has a boyfriend.

Women love status.

She has a bf yet still open to laying other guys.

You are that other guy.

But why let her suck you into the bf-frame?

She will only cheat on you or leave you for another guy if yall eventually get together.

So why put yourself in that frame(relation')?

You should've never went shopping with her unless it was to eventually go on an instant date then a lay.

She's promiscuous and free.

Why try tie her down(if that's your objective)?

Just give her the fun thrill she craves(the thrill of cheating),and keep her as an FB(fucc-buddy).

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I wouldnt say she's screening for BF material.

If she does,you're responsible for setting the boyfriend frame.

What is it you're looking for from this chicc?

What she's doing is that she realizes that she's in a relationship at a point in life where she really wants to be free.

She most likely got with the current bf just to fill her insecurities-or just to say that she has a boyfriend.

Women love status.

She has a bf yet still open to laying other guys.

You are that other guy.

But why let her suck you into the bf-frame?

She will only cheat on you or leave you for another guy if yall eventually get together.

So why put yourself in that frame(relation')?

You should've never went shopping with her unless it was to eventually go on an instant date then a lay.

She's promiscuous and free.

Why try tie her down(if that's your objective)?

Just give her the fun thrill she craves(the thrill of cheating),and keep her as an FB(fucc-buddy).
Come on dude that's being a bit too tad pessimistic. She was saying that she always believed that you meet people in university and have long term relationships. I for one actually want to be in a relationship but will still lay her if i get the chance. I do kinda agree she wants freedom but can understand what she means about maybe finding a new boyfriend, she only sees him once a month.
Currently i think i may be too friendly and building too much rapport how can i ramp it up to more of an attraction phase... more eye contact, more sensual kino?
She says she wants me to go to a nightclub Thursday is that THE invitation?


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She says she wants me to go to a nightclub Thursday is that THE invitation
O.0 Wo0t!

Dude she is lay material! Go to the nightclub and close her. Damn she seems so easy.
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Currently i think i may be too friendly and building too much rapport how can i ramp it up to more of an attraction phase... more eye contact, more sensual kino?
Sure. Be sexual around her. Don't come into the friend zone. Make eye contact, that's very sexy and makes you look secure. Kino her, and make variations with kino. Try to touch her on places where other guys wouldn't touch her quickly (without being creepy, like touching her vajayjay and such, but when sitting on a bench touching her on the sensitive side of the upper leg, her neck, whisper in her ear, ...). Disqualify her. Punish her when she is bad, reward her when she is good. Oh god I feel like gaming right now!

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She's giving you the invite or the chance again.

Take it(lay her)or she'll hook up with another guy.

Ok,I was a bit pessimitic about her not being faithful if yall get together.

But females jump in & out of relationships like nothing.

You may get heart-broken later if you allow her to suck you into that frame.

And why do you understand her wanting a new BF?

That's BS!!

She wants a new-nice BF to have someone to got home to after she's already banged some fun guy.

You can either be that fun guy on Thursday,or you can eventually become her new-nice BF she cheats on.

She's prone to cheating because she isnt stable.

For crying out loud,she's in school!

Have fun.

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Great tips Shyler.

And as you also notice,this chicc wants it.

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She's giving you the invite or the chance again.

Take it(lay her)or she'll hook up with another guy.

Ok,I was a bit pessimitic about her not being faithful if yall get together.

But females jump in & out of relationships like nothing.

You may get heart-broken later if you allow her to suck you into that frame.

And why do you understand her wanting a new BF?

That's BS!!

She wants a new-nice BF to have someone to got home to after she's already banged some fun guy.

You can either be that fun guy on Thursday,or you can eventually become her new-nice BF she cheats on.

She's prone to cheating because she isnt stable.

For crying out loud,she's in school!

Have fun.
Hey Shyler thanks for the tips, im deffo going to ramp up the sexual tension.
K-Loc i understand what your saying, i don't want to come across as a friend or someone not capable of giving her a lay as its become evident that's what she wants. We will see how it goes, i still have her number.
Also if i could ask for advice on more than anything it would be this...
What do i do when she is speaking and im just listening intently and all i can think of to say is "YEA" over and over again. She does a lot of the talking which is good (Is that another lay sign as well haha) but sometimes all i can think of is yea.
What responses can i make that are better!?


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Ok Tedwood.

Not trying to put pressure on you,but we're looking forward to some good news after Thursday.

Do your thing.

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Damn, where can I find girls that just invite you to nightclubs right after you meet them! HOok em up s0n


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Exactly Shinigaml(lol).

There's no way Tedwood should not get the lay.

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Exactly Shinigaml(lol).

There's no way Tedwood should not get the lay.
Believe me i've messed up big time before.
We have lectures Thursday so im just going to speak to her and remind her in case she 'forgets'. IF all goes to plan... should be a good night. ha


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Exactly Shinigaml(lol).

There's no way Tedwood should not get the lay.
Believe me i've messed up big time before.
We have lectures Thursday so im just going to speak to her and remind her in case she 'forgets'. IF all goes to plan... should be a good night. ha
I'd suggest you be subtle about how you remind her, as you dont want her to think she's your only option and you dont want to come accross as being needy. Think about how you bring it up.


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RagingBull true, true although im not sure how well today has went. She came into the class and she noticed me first and i smiled but i didn't actually speak to her. I kind of felt like a newb for doing that but in my defence we did have group work to do. Plus a HB10 looked at me and smiled and i smiled back and im not sure if the girl im after actually saw and not sure how she would feel. I then later texted her saying you won't be needing some paper from before as she missed the earlier tutorial and put tut tut at the end... she didn't reply. Gaah I always get paranoid when i think id fked up!
One other thing that's been bugging me is there is another lad in my class who has been gaming a lot of the girls and got their numbers. He's got about 3 of the fittest girls in the classes numbers (one of them the girl im gaming) and he's in her group, he's the one im probably competing with.
I got a plan though, so im going to stick to it!


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RagingBull true, true although im not sure how well today has went. She came into the class and she noticed me first and i smiled but i didn't actually speak to her. I kind of felt like a newb for doing that but in my defence we did have group work to do. Plus a HB10 looked at me and smiled and i smiled back and im not sure if the girl im after actually saw and not sure how she would feel. I then later texted her saying you won't be needing some paper from before as she missed the earlier tutorial and put tut tut at the end... she didn't reply. Gaah I always get paranoid when i think id fked up!
One other thing that's been bugging me is there is another lad in my class who has been gaming a lot of the girls and got their numbers. He's got about 3 of the fittest girls in the classes numbers (one of them the girl im gaming) and he's in her group, he's the one im probably competing with.
I got a plan though, so im going to stick to it!
Its good you have a plan but remember to remain cool and take everything in your stride. As far as the other guy is concerned, he's not an issue and dont give away any emotions towards the girl. I too get annoyed and paranoid when i've messed it up with a girl but only girls i really like.

Just abit of advice, dont text her explaining the last text, tommorrow perhaps make a joke about her not responding, say something like

hey, so i realise you must have lost my number or were extremely busy cause i know your not the type to be ignorent ;) then ask her how her day was or something.

Just remain cool and i think you will achieve your goal with this girl.

By the way i too get annoyed when i mess it up but only with girls i really like. I think it takes alot of training and self belief to be able to take it or leave it when you mess it up. It's all about inner game.
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Ok news! She invited me to a party instead and so i took her on her offer. Got to her flat, she was pretty drunk and i think her man was there and she was arguing over something with him. I still spoke to her gave her hugs etc. Later on i started gaming one of her mates and it was going well until a much older lad just came in that already knew her and stole her from my grasps. I then ended up going out with 10 people i didn't know and had a good time! She said she'd text me if she was coming out but obviously didn't! Not a good point from a PUA perspective but i think im improving and growing my social circle which eventually will lead to meeting new girls to game!
No regrets from the night, only learning experiences.


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