Dear Brothers,

I am new to the forum and fairly new to the game. I am in my 20's, and live in the United States, East Coast, a few hours from New York City. I started a couple of years ago, but every time I began to get good I would fall in love with one of the girls and have a long relationship with her. In essence, I quit sarging each time I got a girlfriend because that was easier for me than sarging on. Also, each time I became intensely involved with a girl I would enter the infatuation stage and truly believe that girl was all I would ever need to be happy.

In each relationship after a year or so the innate primal urge that most men have began to seep back into my veins: the need to experience the sweet taste, smell, and feel of another woman's flesh. I truly loved my last girlfriend, I would have given my life to protect her, but I cannot remain alive and in slavery. I now understand that, no matter how hot a girl is (even if she is a millionaire-supermodel), how amazing and perfect her personality is, how good of a mother and wife she will make, eventually the infatuation will wear off and that animal urge to experience other women will come back to me and drive me totally crazy and insane... until it is satisfied.

Society tells men like us that we are sick or misogynist womanizers. That is not true. That is far from the truth. The women I have gamed have had some of the best times of their lives with me. No, it is Society that is sick. It is not set up to facilitate human life or happiness. Rather, its structured to facilitate production of material goods. That is what the Western and much of the rest of the world is today: one big factory, an elaborate system that Adam Smith when discussing the power of the division of labor in his treatise Wealth of Nations could not have envisioned. This system does not want you to be polygamous, because that would entail some freedom. They don't want you to be free- they want you to enter into a contractual agreement with ONE woman, to have kids, a mortgage, credit card debt, loans, and a job you cannot quit or else you'll lose all the material possessions that have come to own you.

I wish I could be like the average Joe - content with my little life. Content with making love to only one woman forever, even if she does put on 20 lbs after marriage and pregnancy and gives me some horse manure as to why she can't work it off. Content with baseball games and barbecues, and with spending all my time when I am not chained down in the home working so I can buy a swimming pool for the kids or some useless crap I don't need because I don't want to hear my wife nag me till the end of my days. Content with working some little Sh@# 9 to 5 job so I can spend a hour in traffic only to come home to a TV dinner and Veg out for 4 hours while the System lies to me and pumps me full of corporate programming. Hey, you never know, maybe when Joe's wife isn't looking he can catch a glimpse of the twenty odd beautiful women that are all flocking after Brett Michaels or some other celebrity personality with a rock for a brain, women who Joe will never get to experience for the rest of his life, but will only be able to think about while doing the same old mechanized love routine he has been doing for years.

I am not sick. Society is sick.

What a brilliant post, I'm sure you summed up most mens day to day life in one post just thinking of that scares me. I promised myself I would never become that
I just got out of a relationship with a girl I truly loved to, I would do anything for her all the money I had would be for her! She never took advantage of that though. She made me feel whole now I think I just settled for her and there for I became one of them boring guys but now I seem worse off I'm stuck in if not working doing nothing but surfing the web or trying to game people online society is sick and if I don't come to realise that there is only one life I may lose mine quicker than I think. I'm only 19 and I hit rock bottom but I am trying to re-build my life all I do now is live for the weekend i don't go out until the weekend I want women to forget about my girlfriend but the more I stay in the more I think about her I’m forever checking her facebook page ! I have become obsessive!

So what I'm trying to say what worries me now because thats the first time I have ever been so deep into a relationship if I get another woman and I feel the way I did with my Ex I'll become boring and live the life you just explained I think 90% of the men in the world live.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

Yea, forget about your ex, its the only way. My new rule is, each time I get a new girlfriend, only stay with her for 1 year at the most! and while your with her don't stop practicing your game, because you will lose it and have to re-learn that shit. Even if you don't cheat on her you can go out and still Sarge to keep fresh. Men like us are what mother nature intended, we NEED variety. My last GF was absolutely perfect, absolutely, but no matter how perfect, you WILL GET BORED AND NEED OTHERS, especially when your young like us. 40 + who knows how I will feel, but men under 40 need variety, its not healthy to stay with one women.