Last night I had my first experience of a tease; shes a friend of a friend, and we were all out last night, 3rd time i've met her. She knew I must have been interested in her, although i was trying to ignore her a lot of the time, as well as give her a few negatives, as well as cocky and funny, trying not to show my interest.

Anyway she was a total 100% tease - giving the promise of sex, and then stopping at the last minute, literally. We were on the sofa kissing..touching..and then it was 'no i cant do this, even though I want to, i can't, we should just go to sleep'.

I have to admit I totally fell for the trap, letting her snatch chewing gum off me (lol..), kissing her when she told me to kiss her..damn I even bought her a drink without asking her if she wanted one..basically I got TOTALLY played!! I was basically wrapped around her finger..just because of the promise of sex..which never happened..furthest we got was kissing with a bit of touching.

Im probably going to see her again on tuesday..as our mutual friend is leaving the country for a while so its like a goodbye thing..after that..there's no reason for me to see her...so this could potentially be the last time.

Im looking for some advice from people who have been in the same situation before - this is a first for me, so at least I will learn and know for next time not to fall for the same trap.

Firstly what is the best way to switch this - to make her feel messed up in the head like im feeling right now - shall I totally ignore her when I see her? Make her think 'why is he not interested in me anymore..'. Or shall I just act like normal, show that its not awkward for me after what happened, and IF she tries it again, lead her on then pull out last minute like she did?

Ideally im looking for a way to now tease her back...so that i can then drop her like she did me. Im a cool guy as well as good looking..im not gonna let some random girl make me look and feel like a fool...

Secondly has anyone ever got a tease to give in, in the end? If its not going to be possible to switch it round, and its gonna be the last time of ever seeing her, im more of a 'try and fail, then dont try at all' kinda guy... so thinking to give it 1 last try in some way to get into her knickers.. if it fails won't have to see her again!

Thanks!