There is something I've been struggling with even after some success at picking up women. It seems that regardless of how well I work on my body language, or general appearance, I automatically send off a very intimidating vibe to women.

It takes them more time than with other men to warm up to me and see me as something rather than a potential rapist.

Is there any way to use this to my advantage, or eliminate this drawback altogether? I have a hunch I may be able to play "nice leader" and still bed them. The intimidation vibe alone may be able to make up for everything else. After all, women want a male who can protect and lead them. Maybe. . . I've naturally got that covered. I don't know.

Share your thoughts, please.

I, too, struggle with this.... I am hyper confident, but cognizant of my potential to bulldoze others...

I'm still trying to find the happy medium.