I am having trouble closing lately and don't know what the problem is. Is this an uncontrollable variable of PUA or is there a specific technique?

ex. close
me: 'We should meet for coffee sometime, are you free XXXX'
she: "hmmmmm' hesitantly
me: 'Just coffee nothing big. If we click we can always do something after.'
her: '.........'
me: Well...maybe another time then' *leave

#2

'This is a lot of fun, but I'd like to meet up sometime. I think we'd have fun together'
'Yea me too'
'Whats your number?'
'You move fast!!!'
'Huh? Are you not comfortable with me?'
'Why do some guys move soo fast???'

number closing hasn't even been that great for me yet. But try this:

tell her about some band, movie or book.. and tell her your involved in it somehow. tell her she should really check it out because you would love to hear what she thinks about it.

she'll ask.. "whats it called"

tell her, and then be like.. "i'll text it to you and you can google it" BAM got the number. THEN try getting that coffee date.

BUT i just rocked an opinion opener and actually.. the girls said that you should wait a couple days, call her in the morning and ask for a lunch date.

I've never tried that but it might be worth a test.

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I'm afraid that if I try to pull this it would look negative in the sense that I'm trying to trick her into giving me her number.....
I've soo far thought of one solution though which is invite her out to a group hang type thing soo there is less pressure for her, but this means that I'll have to share my kill with the rest of the pack.

Strategy A: Just give her your number she should follow suit. I do it in douchy cocky funny way. I.E. well I bet you want my number now its X.
Strategy B: Plan Day 2 before you go for a number close because then its automatically logical and likely to work.
Strategy C: Say are you creative? girl says yes. Say okay then hand her phone with blank txt and tell her to write something creative. after she fails, take the phone and say I got something really creative. Then hand her the phone with the txt saying: Me: 83734838347 You: ??. whether or not she gives you her number joke about how thats the most creative way youve ever asked for a number.
I have more strategies just tell me if you need more!
-Fiery
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Hey,

If your looking for a legit number close in night game, read on.
If your looking for a close in day game, stop reading.

ok guys, I never get redjected with this one !
when you think it's time to leave, this shoud be about 3 min maximum.
you tell her that you need to go see your friends but that you would love to see her again or that you would like to introduce her to one of your friends (if your winging) later on tonight but that incase you couldn't find her you need her number so you can ask her where she is.

she won't feel like she has te responsebility to go on a date with you or anything of that kind, you just want to talk to her again when you found your friends in about 30 minutes.

also somthing very important ! if you think you can kiss-close a girl do not ask her for her number first, this wil take away allot of emotion out of your interaction with her. If you aren't able to kiss her you can still go for the number.

sorry for the grammer people, I'm not english or american so this isn't that easy but I'm sure that you guys are able to understand me.


Gianni.

Sorry to say, but both of these are atrocious. Don't use a "Let's have coffee and get married if we like each other" line, nor should you justify hanging out ("I think we are a match made in heaven") or ask her to explain a rejection ("do you think I'm a creepy mass murderer"). Some innocuous alternatives would be:

"You seem nice/funny/fun, maybe I'll let you hang out with me again" (handing her your phone)
"Since you asked so nicely, I might teach you how to fly a space ship" (this presumes she asked you to fly a spaceship before. Substitute something from your conversation instead).

Generally, NEVER bring up a specific meet-up, let alone a date, in your #c. Better yet, don't #c unless you absolutely have to and are confident that you will get somewhere next time. Chances are you won't, since I assume you ran night game when she was out drinking and to have fun/get laid. Why would you do better when she's sober and not in a party mood?

Even more generally, nothing in PU is uncontrollable. And if you tell yourself that it is, you prevent yourself from controlling it! Okay, maybe on occasion, something will go down that kills your game without fault of your own. But those are freak occurrences, not something about PU you fundamentally.