Ok so i've made a couple of posts about this 10 i exchanged numbers with...

we've dated twice...

first time we met had dinner and drinks with some conversation...

i played it cool and let her text me about how she's looking forward to friday (our second date yesterday)

notes: - She is a 10 (a real 10, she's literally stunning to the point people stop and stare), she's very very smart - speaks 5 different languages, business degree, works in business management and studies law...

so anyway our second date is a comedy show (russell peters), and throughout the date the conversation is pretty shallow but we share some laughs, dinner the conversation is again... there, some laughs... but no real deep connection...

now this girl is very self-aware and conserved about how not to lead a guy on or give the impression of something more...

but on the train ride home... she sat next to me and i put my arm on her seat behind her (i naturally sit like that/spread my arms out) and she leaned into me (she said how tired she was)... so i was like ok that's nice...

then we had to switch trains and the only seats left were this small seat at the back... so i put my arm round her in a hug and she put her head on my chest and fell asleep... untill the ride got bumpy and ridiculous so she sat up but still laying on me....untill she got off at her stop

anyway when she got in i got this text

"hey i got home ok, i had a cool night, thanks!"

i guess she isn't all that interested, she's very popular as well and i'm not down playing myself... i'm thinking that because she was comfortable enough to lay on me she could be interested but who knows...

additional notes: She did the choosing when we first met, lots of IOI's i just got the convo rolling and number closed

Well... set up another date and kiss her.

I would say there is attraction and it is up to you to bring it to something more during the next date

few extra things: I've got both her phone numbers, including her work phone which apparently not many people have, she told her how to pronounce her name properly which not many people do and she appreciates how i remember, i got her to tell me a little bit about life back home in Finland... i should of dug deeper though. She still doesn't know much about me besides my job.. . which i guess is good

she also said she hates being approached by guys while she's out shopping but she said there was "something different about me"... the truth is she was checking me out but she won't admit it...

but i'm worried i fukked up this second date because i was kinda quiet although when i did talk i made her laugh.... i just wasn't acting alpha enough... and i know this, i wasn't grabbing her etc and teasing... i think it's because i had to piss real bad for the majority of the date lol...

but she knows i make the decisions when we're out and i take authority... i told of the waiter infront of us in a diplomatic way coz he fukked up... maybe she liked that...

damn i must be crushing