I know there are alot of posts on DHVing but not sure if mine comes under this.

Say you demonstrated higher value to a girl, but then somehow, through your actions, you lost that higher value and now she has that higher value. She has control so to speak.

Question - is there any way to attain that higher value again? or is it kind of lost forever?

Anyone else had experiences of this?

thanks

For a man with a high value, having that high value comes naturally. If you feel you've "lost high value", then it's not a genuine trait of yours (yet). To make it clearer, a man with high value in this situation wouldn't honestly give a hoot because he knows that the High-Status-Equilibrium will shift in his favor eventually, even if it deviates a little.

Trying hard to attain high value once again would actually be a display of low value. Just stop worrying about it and show as though you don't really care. If really necessary, cease communication for just a little while leaving her wondering, and then continue to play your game again.

(P.s: These are the things that I would do if I were you )

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Can you give an example? What Happened?

Sounds to me that she's bringing most of the value and leading the interaction. If that is the case you need to bring the emotional value smack down and establish leadership. Regain back the frame and such

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This one girl said judged me on "my getting girls" and everyone else around laughed at me for what she said. After that, I said something and everyone laughed at her. She was completely clueless as to what to say. During this time, I busted another joke and people laughed even harder and this time she began to smile too and turn red. At that point I was like, "Look everybody, her face turned into a raspberry, aw, isn't that cute!" (finger pointing at her while looking at the people around us).

I remember her saying, "You guys are lucky you don't have periods." I said, "Well I wouldn't be too surprised if it started smelling like a fish market around here." Rude, but got EVERYONE laughing their asses off, including her lol. It was like dropping the "game bomb."

Some guy was like, "Oh snap, I got tuna for lunch man..." and turned my whole joke into a chain reaction.