Hay,
Hope all is going well for the rest of you lads this evening.
I've had a funny night, actually.

For the first time ever since my pua trials, i had to use all of my gaming tools to get the girl. Usually 1 or 2 suffice after the opener, if commingled with good kino-esc and a decent convo. However, tonight I felt a different game come into play:

a good, female challenge!

Good intro game, good dancing, and good, solid routines + great kino.
These include the 5 question game, the rings game, and ofc, the standard denmark-kangaroo-orange tricks in addition to the usual kino tricks + great negs and disqualifiers. I honestly felt i shot above my bracket tonight!

She's a solid 9, and i haven't had that in 2 weeks now.

Only thing I haven't used that i know how to, is The Cube.

Victory being - I got the girl, and i got the kiss. I worked harder for that kiss than I have for any of my uni essays or any academic goals thus far - it felt bloody good. Impressed her friends male and female alike, worked the room, made ourselves the center of attention - the works, as far as i can master so far. Even had a friend's female mate hit on me afterward, which seems a decent sign of gratification for my efforts.

Problem being, I've exhausted myself. I'm supposed to take her out tomorrow into the city, but I'm out of game. I know we get along well, and i know I set myself up great for a day 2, but i hate to have nothing left up my sleeve.

In fact, I refuse to.

My main issue has been day 2's in general actually. I can get the girl on the night, we can have a great, sexual blast, but I either escalate too fast and grant her excuse for remorse, or I fail to provide a decent seal-the-deal for the number initially.

I didn't do that this time - I ticked all of her boxes, and I know it. I was sober enough to work my tricks and gauge her feelings, and sober enough to know when it had finally worked out and it was time for me to fulfill my 'time constraint' and walk away.

So, what do I do on the morrow? She goes back to Sydney at the end of the weekend so i know i've only got 2 early-days left, but i know, with adequate preparation, we can make this work.

This is my first real post and sorry for making it so ott, but i would never say no to a solid set of critical responses.

Cheers lads, help a guy out eh?

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""I did that," says my memory. "I could not have done that," says my pride, and remains inexorable. Eventually - the memory yields."
Beyond Good and Evil, Aphorisms,
Friedrich Nietzsche

Why can't you reuse your tools? Are they broken or something? Saying that why did you feel you had to blast thru all of your tools to get a girl? Was this girl higher value than you or something? If not then there was no reason to blast thru your tools like that.

Hmm... sounds like you know the tools, but haven't been using them for long enough to understand that they're only a way to get you started.

You're lacking self confidence, which is normal.

I'm afraid the only way to learn is to fall off the bike and get on again. Sometimes, you have to break some eggs to make that cake!

Just go on the date and put the gist of PUA into action! Shit or bust! You'll learn either way

Tools are for opening and building enough interest to get you to day 2. At some point you have to be yourself otherwise its all just one big lie. Be confident and get to know eachoher. If you don't hunk you or your life are interesting enough then you should look into building a more attractive and interesting lifestyle.

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The quality of a man's life is in direct proportion to his commitment to excellence, regardless of his chosen field of endeavor - V. Lombardi