Hey,

this is how I did it on second date, hopefully u all understand my english if not just let me know(not my native languaje)

I met this girl in a house party for 5 month ago, since then I have been sending messages and calling her maybe twice a month, maybe more maybe less dont know..., The thing is that I actually did a very good game with her... "but thats another story"... I actually did the bf destroyer even she didn´t have one (she was thinking too much in his ex boyfriend) lol ,She was amazed of how I could know all that!

Here comes my story, after many attemps of meeting her... I sent this message to here!

Pua:hey whats up my girl, do u have some plan going today? Actually I have, but not really going to them... What about u?

HB8: I´m in "bar" cooooooooome!

Pua: okay, i will. But I call u later. How long u will be there?

HB8: Not for so long

HB8 (again): Cooooooooome, I really wanna see u my king (haha really strong IOI)

Pua:My queen, U will see me.... u will see me... I call u when i get there

HB8: Deal , kiss



So I arrived there and call her before entering the place, she answered and we met outside the bar. When she saw me she just hugged me and kiss me and hugged again... she was like all over me and she actually told her friend "heeey this is the guy I told you". So from there we move to another night club next to this bar. daaammmn she was fucking flirting with me and she told to a guy "he is going to take me home dont worry if I get drunk" I really like to be really cocky funny and just told her "heeeyyy, who told u I´m going to give u a ride back home"... she just was laughing !!


We entered the nightclub (her friend, a guy, HB8 and me)

went for some drink I bought also one for her and just chilled there. She was giving me soo many IOI´s that I was like Fuuuuuucckkkk this girl is on!!!!!

She was touching my hair, touching my face, touching my ear, touching my chest....... We were really close. I didnt give her a kiss cause I have all night for that and her friend was just there so decided to wait. We were really having a good night, I was creating tension, being cocky funny, talking to their friends... doing some push and pull.

Ok so after 1 hour we decided to move to another bar so she and i crossed all the nightclub to go directly to the cloak room, but in the way she stopped at some guy she knew and started talking to him so I turned my head and i saw this girl I knew from uni. and gave her a really big hug and start talking with her.
She was talking with this guy and i was talking with this girl really close from each other. My friend ( a hb8.5) she was just leaning into my ear and talking too me really close and I just put my arm in her waist ( I tried to DHV and make a little jealousy). So she came from the cloack room and we just move to the other bar but here is where it all took a big turn) She invited this guy to the other bar.... I was like WTF!!!!, (maybe she saw me with this girl really close and she just invited his friend to make me jelous).

We arrived to the other club where other friends of her where . We just sat and ordered some drinks. I started to notice that all the attention of the HB8 was in his friend (we will call him Arthur). So I really didn´t care and just started talking with the other guy from before and her friend.

But I was noticing how Arthur was actually trying to seduce her ( Arthur is really not very good looking, not a good body at all and almost 6 years older tha us... Im 25)
So I thought ,lets just hace fun, she is trying to make me jelous and thats all, the only way for now its just to be like "dont care and dont be reactive".

I saw this guy giving and provocating the girl to drink more and more, giving shots to her, one after another so she got quiet drunk. so I knew this was the way he will try to seduce her....
He was like , no problem i give u a ride to ur home and she was like okay!!!!

This now started to fuck me... but I still was okay lets see what happen because we where moving to another nightclub ( yes another haha)

By this time we just moved BH8, me and Arthur.

So this is where I started to figure how to lose this guy. ( I was thinking, since this guy will follow us and has been paying for all and is trying to make her drunk and is all over her and trying so hard, I will do the fucking opposite, don´t care, not needy, not easier for her and just have fun since i know that she trying to make me jelous)

In the way to the other club, I just took the hand of the girl and put in the arm and throw the Mystery phrase. "this is all u will get for now" And continue walking

and fuck the other guy was in the other arm!!

I know why this guy wanted to go to this bar he was like knowing all the bar bouncers, barman and the ones who work there. I was like fuck this ugly guy is DHV, So i took her by the hand and moved to the table that this guy have there, I just squeezed her hand and I got back the IOI and I squeezed harder and she squeezed harder. But the fucking guy was also taking the other hand of the girl.

We arrived to tha table and he ordered some drinks for the table. Sufficient to get so fucking really drunk. But I really didnt want to drink. I knew Arthur will put all his chips in the table. So I just started dancing the electro music next to table and really dont care, just in that moment, he took her to the bar for some drink ( What a fuck!!!!, there was alcohol in the table to kill a buffalo, I knew that this was his move and he wanted to close.... she was drunk and hot). She told me" im coming back.... " and told her "yeah noooo problemmmm".


There is where i thought that this has gone really far!!!!! not pissed but here is where I say, lets start playing like a PUA.

Minutes later I saw her coming back, the girl hanging 2 ballons and 1 rose in here hand and this fucking guy just kissed her in front of me and I was like " this fucking AFC is just buying her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, I saw she was like feeling guilty, nevermind...

So the only thing I could do here was.... go and game a fuking girl infront of her and the AFC nose.... (Just to let them know that I can be with any fucking women and women like to be with me... and trying to hit me. This was not anymore to get this girl, this was a challenge "a game!!!!") and gotta start talking to a women really close to the table cause if i left the table they could think i got pissed and went DLVing

It didnt take me 3 minutes until I start talking with a girl. I used the first thing pupped in my mind, something around this lines.

PUA: Hey I wanna to get a tatto in my arm... what do you like more a tatoo or piercing. What is sexist.....

HB8.1: bla bla bla


I was fucking gaming her just her to see me, I just locked in, lean my body backwards and some times put my body to another direction, so if someone can see us they would think "this girl is fucking all over that guy".

Actually I didnt want anything with this girl, but fuck I was like in automatic!!!! and I just could see how HB8 was staring at me and at the same time kissing the guy. I was really all concentrated in my game. ( I have never done this, to game the girl for soooo long and even dont wanna kiss her nor see her again, it was just to recover my high value)
This fucking guy ordered a bottle of Champagne just for 3 fucking persons!!!!

I didnt care and just continued. There was one time where the HB8 just stood there with here body and eyes looking at me really close to us, I turned my head and we just looked at our eyes like for 4 sec. and turned again and continue talking to the girl (I could notice she was having little puppy eyes and looking directly to my eyes)

I got bored from this girl and got back to the table, it took me almost 1 hour and 30 min talking to her. Back in the table I continued dancing and I knew I have taken my value to the clouds. Arthur offered a glass of champagne and i continued dancing, they didn´t passed 15 minutes and they just left over. She was like feeling bad, I could notice in her face.... My face was like I m having so muuuuuuuch fucking fun. I stayed with A friend of her that arrived when i was in all the show. (she was a HB3)

So talked to her, we finished the bottle of champagne, the shots.... I didnt pay for anything. I win the ugly girl of the group.... She told me i was really cool person, with too much energy ( I was not gaming her) and bla blabla... she was not hitting in me but she was like awsome guy!!!!


So that was my story

I have learned, that if you are with one girl thats is all over u, you dont need to do the jealousy move or maybe not to be so close to her and forget to put ur hand in her waist.

From your point of view, what I did right and what wrong?

What to do next? call her? (of course I know if she accept to see me, i will fuck her really hard!!!!) I think calling here mmmmmm , 2 weeks, dont mention nothing and invite her to a party. I the mind time i will call other girls in my list.

I dont think she will want to see Arthur again. She was drunk and I think he didnt do enough "confort".

She maybe can feel sorry for invitating me and making out with another guy.


Thanks for reading and for ur comments


cheers


Notneedy

Dude, you're in a great position, call her and meet up with her when she's not drunk, then close the deal. Nice story by the way.

By the way did the Arthur dude take her home then? x

honestly from your story you came off as the guy that is avoiding reality, seemed to me like you were getting jelous because you lost her for the night for the very least and by posting this saying your face expression was "im haavvviinng sooo much fuckkking fun" is just a way to comfort yourself from believing so...

Have you considered the fact she was just looking at you wondering how you knew this girl? She didnt see you # close or k-close so she mustve thought you were mutual friends.

Lets hope im wrong though and you do end up having this girl hot and horny thinking about you up and through the time you call her

Hey Gamble....

Thanks very much for ur feedback... I have been reading your posts from NLP... and the books u have recomended. They are just awsome, I´m just starting to apply them on field, actually I have copied some of your attraction patterns and some from other books. I can say in this area im a beginner but I can feel the power when I deliver them correct. It will take me more time cause i just have to translate it to spanish and see what applies to my languaje and what doesn´t and from there start to create my owns, but the basics are the same, am I correct??... I m sure u think the same way
Yeah, I think he drop her in her house. But I think ur question was, if she went home with him?... I have no idea, i don´t want to ask her directly.
Hopefully you are right... and I think so, I´m in a great position. I will call her and I will keep you up dated my friend.


cheers


Notneedy

Hey Straigh up!!!

Yeah maybe I was a little jealouse.... but I´m human of course you will feel it. That is why this Jealousy is so poweful. I tried not to express it and the only way I could do it was believe it. If you can insert that believe in your mind, you will start to act like if it is not affecting you and the others will notice it...

I could just sit there and do nothing, I could just walk away or I could just begin a fight... but I belive the way I deal it was a good one maybe you have one and you don´t want to tell me , We are here all to improve our skills, Is n´t it?

haha yeah I know what do you mean. I didn´t jump like if I just where getting off the Roller Coaster but I was transmiting a good energy when you see a person having fun. Thats what I think, I dont have a video .... Damnnn that would be really amazing!!!!



Yeah, there can be too many possibilities... maybe she was wondering where do I bought those pair of shoes or where do I cut my hair:)

But I just felt it, it was something else. Actually I didn´t k close but at some point I was really close to her, touching hair, touching waist, with my leg between hers, she was putting her arm in my shoulder, I was spinning her.... etc
There was tension I just tried to increase it and I think she also felt it.


Hopefully you are wrong , just in this one!!! I will call here and ofcourse update you.

Apreciate very much your point of view...

Cheers


Notneedy

Hopefully i am seems like you were doing very well then!

Good luck!!

after 2 weeks, I called her again. She was kind of happy me to call her.

PUA: hey how are u?

HB8: ooohhhh really good and you, what are you doing?

PUA: Im fine, I ´m driving... going in my way to buy some stuff, you?

HB8: brushing my teeths

PUA: Awsome!!!, may you explain me, how can you brush your teeths and talk with me at the same time????

HB8: mmmmm cause I´really smart

PUA: haha, sorry, you don´t surprise me!!!! (kind of sarcastic)

HB8: hahahahha
(some more fluff talk)

HB8: I´m going to this night club

PUA: Me too, going with my friends

HB8: ohhh call me, so we can meet there

PUA: Don´t have to call you, I´m sure we will me there inside

ok




So I didn´t call her, and just went to this nightclub.

I was just having a good night with my friends (ofcourse I was thinking to send her a message but later in the night).

But in one of those obligatories stops in the toilet I just crossed against her friend and started talking with her and when the HB8 saw me she just jumped and hugged me.

Her friends ofcourse knew about me and about the 2 day but they were really nice with me so in that moment I could figure out that I just gave a good impression to all of them and this girl didn´t talk shit about me. (I think I was seen as an alfa)

I had a little good conversation with her friend another 2hb8, I just noticed how she was gaving me some IOI, she told me that she just broke with her boyfriend of 4 years and she was kind of "dating" with the guy from the night of the 2 day. But she was like "oh but no his is not my boyfriend..." ( I just was thinking in my head " She is giving me IOI, but noooo dont do the same shit as 2 day, Doooont touch her waist and dont apply jelousy" I was soooo tempted but I could deal it Smile )

So I started talking with the HB8, some fluff talk and decided to isolte her. I took her by the hand and told her "Lets go with my friends I want you to meet them" and just leadered her to where they where.

We arrived I introduce to them and all that shit.
Again as the 2 day, she was really flirting with me. ( I though thas was time to figure out WTF with the guy she made out in 2 day.)

PUA: How are the ballons still alive???, or there is no more air in them???

HB8: Ahhh the ballons, no I just gave them to another person (hahaha, That aswer just said to me that the guy was out, I knew that from the beginning but wanted to be sure)

So we kept talking, making some tension, looking directly at her eyes, touching her waist......

There was one time where she started kissing me in the cheeks really dont remember why, we where really close and I tried to kiss here but she just did her head backwards (hahaha, this girl was playing hard)

I used for the first time this routine I heard ( wanted to try it)

(Really close to her) "What is this smell, it taste like vanilla!!!!... "( moving my head like trying to figure out) "okay, let me taste it" and kissed her for 1 seg.... ( moved my head away and looking upwards like figuring out the taste and then back to her) "no its not vanilla what it is?" she was like its strawberry.

I was really doing some good escalation almost all of the time she was giving me really strong IOIs, one of them was IOD I really don´t remember why was this but I just calibated with another IOD ( just turning my back to her and looking to another direction.... This shit is gold I use it very frecuntly always with great result, they really feel like they are losing you, girls never like to lose and no one of the other guy use this, instead they try harder, Godbless Mystery) hahaha she was like " heyyyy you cant do that to me " soooo back to the game

All was going as planned , hahaha almost, but here is where I received some Friendly Fire.... My wing just turned and told her " Hey why are you doing this to my friend?, he told me that you invited him and you started making out with another guy" she responded " mmmmmm , yeah but he was flirting with a blond girl instead".... I just made eye contact with my wing, like trying to shut up him.
But I think he was a little drunk I donno WTF, but he was not really helping me and he continued telling this shit to the girl I didn´t knew how to shup up him. I started telling the girl "No I don´t know what is he talking about" ofcourse the girl told me " I dont want to be here anymore I´m going back to my friends. I dont like your friend".

( I knew this put me in a place I didn´t want to be and all the good game I has been doing from the begining just could be fucked up... "being reactive and know that the shit that happened in 2 day cared me a lot")

Just went back with her friends, had a little of fluff talk and told her that I need to get back with my friends and told me she will meet me there for sure later on in the night.

Ofcourse she didnt go, and I knew it because my wing was there.



hahaha Yeah my wing was drunk and stealed me the girl that i was gaming later on in the night beside our table, she was giving me tons of IOI´s, he just took it by the hand and took her. ( actually this one I didnt care but with the HB8 I was really pissed)


I still have that HB8 in my hands, this just delayed it one more day.(hope soooo!!!! )
My friend did a really bad winging game
No more alcohol for him hahaha
I could figure out that all the shit that the HB8 did in second day was to make me jelous and I did a very good game
The other AFC is out and no more air in those ballons, ha
She still feeling atraction to me




What do next?? see her one- one.... or invite her to a party.

I will call her or send a message but donno yet.

Still have possibilities from your point of view

what next???

opinions


Notneedy