Hi, Let me introduce myself as this is my first post. Coming from Montreal, Canada, I just started reading this Forum and i must say that i find it great.

I would say that i'm a complete AFC, I always been the Clown of the class when in elementary school. I would say that i'm pretty confident in myself and I have no problem approaching women, but I often end up looking slightly weird. i'm good and looking and i workout, it often saves me.

Well now you know a little about me and I want to thank you for helping me out. I plan on reading the Forum a lot more and eventually help people as I get better.


So Here's my story, thanks for your help.

So as I said, i'm in College and I have a girl friend, who is a HB5, who introduced me to 2 of her friends HB8-8.5 last session. I talked to them a few times saying jokes, nothing really important. This session, one of them is in my spanish class :thanks God:. So I saw her first class, she was sitting in front of me but didn't see me. I pretended I wasn't sure it was her in front of me and called my HB5 friend so that she gives me her number. She did and I did text her to ask him if it was her, I know it sucked but I had her number and she wasn't mad at the HB5 for handing me her number. So we had a break at half the class and I went to talk to her, we chatted for 15 minutes, I was telling her that the spanish accent of the teacher was sexy, she laughed. I and complemented her a bit. So when we entered the class again she went to sit beside me, IOI, I told her cocky funny jokes and I laughed everytime the geek in the front was talking ( I mean it was really funny, i didn't LOL, only silently and told her something in the ear and she started laughing, now everytime the Geek talks she laugh and look at me. She's really great. So it's been three times I see her in the class, I saw her sometimes out of the class with the two other girl. After the class we usually did homework together and I can tell she had fun with me. Once she shooted my name and started running to come me as she saw I was returning in class after a 15 break. ( I just thought she had already got back to class, I just left her and went to see my friends to show some independence.) We text each-others 3-5 times a day. Today, a thursday, I hadn't see her since Monday, I texted her and wrote in spanish (spanish course you know) ''Pensando en ti'', I think of you. She replied something like ''?Como estas? so I kept playing the game and wrote ''bien y tu''. I believe she got the point anyway. I texted her to know if she was still in school as i was leaving, but she was already home. I texted : Next Thursday you come with me to the restaurant. Didn't ask just told her to come . She replied : I really would love to come, but i can't because of my boyfriend. I know she has one as I know her friends, she not lying. And I really believe she wants to come. Her boyfriend is younger than her (she's 18, he's 17, I'm 19) and she told her friend it was a shit relation, I don't give a crap about this guy he's a jerk anyway so I don't mind stealing her. So anyway, after she replied the ''No....'' I replied ''K see you Monday I'll tell you about something'' And now I need help to make her want to come to the restaurant with me as I know i'll win her over if I have a few time with her only. I'm not woman needy, I can definitely look independent and confident. Maybe i'll take her to a little bistro instead, nothing fancy, very cheap. Please help me convince her even though she has a BF. Thanks guys for reading it all.

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